In the eyes of a free woman, a married man is like a suitcase without a handle: you want to take it, but there is nothing to lift it. At the same time, some ladies stubbornly continue to spin around such a "suitcase", achieving their goal. Someone gets what they were striving for, but someone remains "with a nose". When entering into a relationship with a ringed man, you need to clearly imagine the picture in which you will find yourself. Whatever your intentions regarding such a relationship, your role is primary, not secondary, so you should be careful about building relationships with a married member of the stronger sex.
Instructions
Step 1
Choose the position you are currently in. Perhaps you fell in love with a man without knowing that he is married; or you knew that the chosen one is not free, but decided on closer contact. Another situation: you are married, he is married, you both are satisfied with such a "quadrangle". And the fourth option - you do not care that he is married, for you this is a beneficial relationship.
Step 2
How you should behave depends on your choice. But there are general conditions for any of the options. Having stepped on the crooked path of such a relationship, be prepared for anything. Nobody says it's hard or easy, but your goals should be clear and concise. The shaky state of "love-dislike-money-habit" sows false hopes exclusively in your bright head. For a man, the situation will be comfortable and pleasant until you claim your rights to the relationship. This refers to the way in which they will flow.
Step 3
If you fall in love with a young man who is not free, try to determine whose fault you missed such an important detail. The first option - you were covered by an unearthly wave of feelings, the veil reliably covered your eyes, you yourself did not react to transparent hints. The second option - your chosen one fell in love with no memory and was afraid to frighten you off with such a status. The third - the man stubbornly hid the presence of a family from you until the last.
Step 4
Roll up the relationship and hack off the shoulder if the status of "married" was hidden by your man. Relationships will not lead to anything good. It is a trap fueled by your hopes. Do not give slack so as not to regret spending time on someone who cannot make you happy.
Step 5
If you yourself turned a blind eye to the facts, then it's time to open them and take a closer look. It's not too late to run away and forget about what happened, as if it were a dream. The chosen one has a family, a wife who loves him and values him, perhaps has children. You will destroy someone else's happiness, it is difficult to build a new house on someone else's ashes.
Step 6
Fight for your love if it is mutual and strong. The following advice is appropriate here: do not think about his wife, think about your relationship with him, fight for him, and, consequently, for the possibility of creating your own family. Be patient, because a loved one will not be able to destroy a family and start life over again in one day, it may take a year for this.
Step 7
Be realistic, think soberly, because you knew what you were doing. Either take advantage of all that this relationship gives you, or try to get rid of it. A man, being married, allowed himself something more than flirting in your direction. If you were in the place of his wife, would you highly appreciate his act? You don't need such a lover. He is not worthy of you. You feel a feeling of being in love, and he is a feeling of greatness, having two women at the same time.
Step 8
Love Quadrangle can add variety to your life. When playing this game, follow the rules. Do not be jealous, do not pry, do not get to the bottom of the truth. Privacy is your strong point. Do not share personal, do not go into details, do not make mutual friends. In fact, these are just your love joys. That's the point.
Step 9
Use a married lover and know your worth when it comes to market relations. It may sound rude, but it is sobering in serious situations. A man does not promise you mountains of gold, he comes when he sees fit, shows attention and care for the mood. He uses you, you in turn use him. The opportunities that it gives. If you dream of getting the most out of such a novel, then the principle works here: "I don't hear anything, I don't see, I don't speak." The lover's legal spouse does not have to know about your existence. Otherwise, it will result in headaches and stress. Don't fall in love, lest you fail.
