Anything can happen in life. She was alone all her life - and suddenly she got married. So, in 2017, a 106-year-old bride went down the aisle in Brazil, and the marriage was the first! But, as a rule, ladies, “programmed” for loneliness, remain lonely. There are several signs of a woman who will never marry.
She was raised by a single mom
It is not always clear to such a woman why a man is needed in the house. And how much effort on her part a married life can cost.
These women are not necessarily "nuns." They can date men, but they are not particularly keen on long-term relationships. An independent female existence is the norm for them.
Others want their own family and husband, but they have unrealistic ideas about marriage. As a child, they did not see that family life is not only love, but also quarrels, a search for compromises. And living together is also not easy. Therefore, it is difficult for them to establish relationships with a real person.
Those who have experienced difficult parental divorce as children often deliberately avoid marriage. For them, living together is a road of disappointment, which is better not to enter.
Finally, there is the “mother’s girl”. They either live their whole lives in the same apartment with their mother, or separately, but still "under a hood." Mom selfishly does not let go of an adult daughter, so as not to be left alone. Naturally, the son-in-law is superfluous in this pair.
Her intelligence is at least above average
She is smart, educated, she likes to develop. Naturally, a man should be no worse. This greatly narrows the field for her choice: there is a high demand for smart and successful guys.
In addition, she knows how to find the meaning of life in different areas, except for marriage. The variety of interests and the ability to think independently do not allow her to get hung up on the "female destiny". Even if she secretly wants to get married.
She measures people by inflated standards
Her husband must be smart, handsome, wealthy, and so on. And at the first meeting, a spark should slip between them. And he must look after her beautifully all his life.
There may be several reasons for this approach. For example:
- the girl herself is a clever beauty, and does not want a husband "worse than herself";
- in her family, parents showed a respectful and loving attitude towards each other, hiding the dark side of the couple's life from children. As a result, the girl developed an idealistic idea of marriage;
- the girl grew up without a father, painting his embellished image. The husband, accordingly, must also be perfect;
- the girl is immersed in the world of science, literature or her own fantasies. In relationships, she is equal to Pierre and Marie Curie or Aragorn and Arwen. Naturally, in her eyes, the men around her are so, solid goblins.
She's too proud
It happens like this: from the outside she looks strong, in a relationship with the opposite sex - like a Virgo in trouble. She expects the Man of her dreams to come, see and win, that is, to conquer her (and at the same time her mother). And then all her life she will guess her desires and independently embody them.
Even falling in love, she will not start flirting first. Being in a quarrel, she will not offer to make up herself. She will be angry if the chosen one is "not courageous enough" or suddenly did not fulfill her desire.
Naturally, the relationship is unlikely to last long. And she may not even be very upset. He was not worthy of her.
She has a clear life plan and her own opinion on everything
She outlined everything in advance: how she will build her career, when she gets married, when she gives birth to a child, and how many days after giving birth she will return to work. What apartment will her family live in, how will they spend their vacation. What should she do and what should her husband do.
Ah, does a man have an opinion? Well, then they are not on their way. Her priorities are always above anything else.
She has no time all the time
There are two types here: a really busy woman and a busy word.
The first one really loads herself a lot: she has work, school, gym, dog and much more. If she has a child, then she is intensively engaged in his development. She just doesn't have time for men! Especially for her husband, who also needs to cook borscht.
Other ladies are doing something unknown, but everyone around them is extremely busy. You invite such a friend to go with a company to a restaurant, and she has an important project / dissertation / cat sick. Another time - again a project / all the same dissertation / now my mother is ill.
In both cases, these women simply built a comfortable way of life in their little world, beyond which you no longer want to go. However, they may not be against marriage, even want it. But change for them is more terrible than the prospect of eternal loneliness.
She is sometimes stressed and sometimes depressed
There can be many reasons for this condition, and, most often, there is a whole tangle of them. And dissatisfaction with her personal life, and high demands on herself, and overwork, and the expectations of others … And she courageously pretends that everything is fine.
She may be trying to solve this problem as well. She meets her friends and has fun, goes to see specialists for treatment, comes up with new hobbies and motivates herself in every possible way. But still, you can't really relax.
But men, as luck would have it, love calm, positive and relaxed.
Some women give up, stop taking care of themselves, start drinking. It is clear that there can be no more talk of any marriage here. Although … anything can happen in life.
