It is quite easy to gain confidence in your interlocutor if in the course of a conversation it turns out that you have common interests with him. You just start communicating with a person on your common favorite topics, liberate yourself and continue talking like old acquaintances or even friends.
Instructions
Step 1
This method is in service with experienced manipulators who are trying to start the conversation in an interesting direction for the "victim". If we consider this technique in a pair of "man and woman", then you need to be careful. Dear women, if you tell the male interlocutor that you are also crazy about football, hockey, stunt stunts and Metallica, then you may not be believed.
Step 2
The fact is that women's and men's tastes differ. Women are more fond of watching romantic movies, talk shows and listening to light music. And men prefer action films, sports, as well as heavier music. Of course, there is an exception to this rule, but that's another question.
Step 3
Let's say your interlocutor is fond of Tolkien's books. He has already read all of his works and watched all the film adaptations. Knowing this, you can build a relationship with the person effortlessly. State casually, as if casually, that you have recently read the last work of the author from the series "The Lord of the Rings" and you really liked it. Of course, if you are not a true fan of Tolkien, then get ready to talk about the idol in advance: read several books and watch at least one film adaptation. Otherwise, you can get screwed up.
Step 4
An absolute plus for you will be if you are really fond of Tolkien and follow the new facts associated with him yourself. So you will enter into trust with a man much faster. Moreover, if you surprise a man with some new facts from the life of a writer, he will be very grateful to you. And if you also find a complete (director's) version of his favorite movie with rare interviews or get tickets for his favorite event, you will be doing the person a huge favor. In the future, this person simply will not be able to refuse in response to your request.
