“Whom you love, that you trust” - this rule is as old as human civilization. Indeed, how can you talk about love, about intimate, intimate, relationships, if there is no trust between a man and a woman? And trust, in turn, is unthinkable without frankness, the ability to conduct a dialogue, to correctly approach the discussion of any, even the most difficult, "acute" issues and problems. So how should a woman behave so that her close man is convinced: she can be trusted, she will understand everything correctly?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, remember: no scenes of jealousy! The vast majority of men hate them. Even if you are sure that you have reason to be jealous, scandals, reproaches, and even more tantrums, will only worsen the situation. What if it turns out that your suspicions were completely unfounded? Will a man trust such a partner? Will the old love last?
Step 2
If there is a need to "talk seriously" - for God's sake, do not repeat the typical woman's mistake! A serious conversation is carried out in an appropriate setting, and not literally "on the run." Alas, when a woman is "bursting with emotions", she usually does not think about whether it is appropriate to sort things out when a man is in a hurry for important negotiations, for example. Or when his favorite football team is preparing to shoot a penalty kick into the opponent's goal.
Step 3
Find the right moment for this conversation! So that there is enough time and nothing distracts. Try to conduct it in the most correct, restrained tone. In no case do not get personal, do not get away from the essence of the issue! Remember: men love specifics and hate "wandering in three pines." Then your man, regardless of whether he agrees with you or not, will certainly treat you with confidence, as an intelligent, serious, judicious partner.
Step 4
Forget, like a bad dream, the old adage: "If a woman is wrong, a man must apologize to her!" You are a normal woman, not a feminist. If you yourself feel and understand that you were wrong, that you did not behave in the best way, honestly admit it and apologize. No need to look for excuses like: oh, because I am a woman, a weak being, I have a lot of reasons for mood swings, and men are strong, so they must be tolerant, indulgent. Equality is so equal. Your man will surely appreciate such an act, and it will only strengthen the trust between you.
