Regardless of whether the pregnancy is accidental or planned, after the second strip appears on the test and a visit to the doctor, the woman needs to tell her relatives about her interesting position.
When to talk about pregnancy
Even before the fact of pregnancy becomes obvious, some people around you should know about the pregnancy that has come. Be sure to notify your partner about the new position - a husband or a young man As for informing other relatives, friends, colleagues, the decision should be made by the woman herself. However, you should not talk about pregnancy too early in order to avoid unwanted questions in the future. It is best to notify relatives about future motherhood after 12 weeks, when the risks of miscarriage and pregnancy fading are minimal.
How to tell your husband about pregnancy
The father of the child is the first person to make a woman happy. Many ladies imagine how they will admit this during a romantic dinner. However, in reality, rarely does anyone have the patience not to betray himself in advance. Any woman wants to see delight in the eyes of a man, wants strong hugs and strokes of the tummy. This does not always happen in practice, but you should not be upset, since most men realize the interesting position of a woman only after the first pushing of the baby, or even after childbirth.
If the relationship with your partner is uncertain and tense, then you should prepare for a serious conversation, at which a decision will be made mutually on the future future of pregnancy. You should not keep a man with a pregnancy, it will be better if he leaves at the very beginning than after the birth of the baby. When a man is not against a child, then it is also not worth demanding the legalization of the relationship, it is necessary to give him time to think things over and make the right decision.
How to tell parents about pregnancy
If the parents live with the pregnant woman in the same room, then they themselves can quickly guess about the changes that have occurred.
And if you live apart, you can invite them to dinner by making funny invitations for the newly minted grandparents.
The reaction of parents can be different, but, as a rule, if their children are happy together, they are ready to rejoice for the future addition to the family.
If mom and dad are against the birth of a child, then you should not blame them for this, but it is better to make it clear that the pregnant woman is happy with her position and give time to cool down. sooner or later they will get used to this idea and will babysit their beloved grandson.
Often mother-in-law treat daughter-in-law's pregnancy with excessive responsibility, constantly teaching her. In order not to spoil her nerves, a pregnant woman should listen carefully to the "useful" advice of relatives, and even, perhaps, take some of them on a note.
How to tell your friends about pregnancy
In a circle of friends, a woman's pregnancy becomes a topic of discussion and gossip. If you want to avoid this, at least at first, then you can keep silent about an interesting situation. However, over time, pregnancy will still become noticeable, and if you want to avoid whispering behind your back, then it is better to talk about it publicly.
How to tell your boss about pregnancy
If the work of a pregnant woman is harmful, the authorities should be notified as soon as possible. According to the Labor Code of the Russian Federation, the employer is obliged to transfer a woman to lighter working conditions with a shorter working day and additional breaks. In addition, the boss will have time to select and train a new employee, and the pregnant woman will have time to transfer cases to him.
How to tell your boss about pregnancy
If the child is still small, then there is no need to rush into explanations, since he may not understand the processes taking place in the woman's body, he is not very well oriented in time.
Long wait and uncertainty can be stressful. A child 2-5 years old can already be explained that he also lived in his mother's belly and told that soon he will have a brother or sister when his belly begins to grow. At the same time, a respectful attitude towards the mother and the unborn baby should be brought up from the very introduction to the course.
An older child needs to be explained in advance how events will develop after the birth of the baby. Do not hide the fact that the mother will devote most of the time to the baby, painting incredibly rainbow pictures in front of the elder. Otherwise, disappointment cannot be avoided.
It is necessary to prepare in advance the older child for the fact that he will have to grow up and provide his mother with all possible help around the house. Training should begin during pregnancy, for example, by offering to jointly prepare a dowry and a room for the baby.
It must be explained that the mother will not love the older child less after the replenishment in the family, and after the birth of the baby, try to remove both of them as much time as possible.
