In a relationship and in a loved one, women dissolve completely and forget about themselves. They make a lot of mistakes, losing their self-respect. Over time, they no longer feel loved and happy. Psychologists give recommendations on how to behave with a man in order to be happy and not lose yourself in a relationship.
Flirt in moderation. To find exactly your soul mate, don't go too far in flirting. Otherwise, you can just get "love for one night". They may ask for your phone number in the morning, but they are unlikely to call it. Concentrate better your charm and charm in relation to who you really like, but even in this case, you must first get to know each other better, and then move on to a close relationship. If the guy doesn't want to wait, then learn to say "no", otherwise nothing will remain of your self-esteem.
You are proud of the man with whom you were lucky enough to be around, but still do not forget about yourself. You, too, must be a person, and this is achieved by building your own life, achieving your personal life goals. Love for a man is only a part of his world, and for women it is the whole Cosmos. But you need to learn from your beloved, and then you will become for him a full-fledged partner in life, which he will appreciate endlessly.
You spent 4-5 nights with a guy and are already going to him with suitcases or suggesting that he move in with you. Think again before deciding on this. What if it's not love? It may turn out that you will get too easy for him, and the man will relax, you may become uninteresting to him. Look from the outside at your relationship, look back at your love, so as not to make mistakes.
Don't confuse passion with love. Although your partner gives you the pleasures you have long dreamed of, it may well happen that she marries someone else. He instinctively senses that sexual addiction will prove to be the worst precondition for marriage. Harmony in a relationship should start from the head, then everything will work out by itself in bed.
It is a big mistake to try to tie a loved one to yourself with the help of a child. Your boyfriend wants to learn more, to reach some height in his career, but you don't want to wait, but to get married and have children right now. If you become pregnant with cunning, then instead of a man's love, you will receive his hatred. Such an act can only be done by immature, stupid women.
It is a serious mistake to be afraid of loneliness and not part with someone who hurts you mentally or physically. You have already told yourself more than once that you need to part with him, but then he will give flowers, then decorations, then he will unexpectedly pour compliments, and you thaw, thinking that he loves you and treats you well. You think, what if this will not happen in your life, if you part with him, let yourself be deceived, try to convince yourself that he loves you more than anyone else, since he chose you and lives with you, is married to you. It's just that, you think. These thoughts are fundamentally wrong! Bad relationships are already loneliness.
You have married a loved one, but do not expect too much, do not think that a stamp in your passport is a guarantee of eternal happiness. In marriages crises come, romance is consumed by everyday life. The only way to maintain happiness with marriage and romance in a relationship is to talk to each other, listen, ask, actively build your relationship, even when you're already married.
If a man drinks and does not want to be treated, or the treatment does not help. It's tough, but needs to be quit. Everyone is responsible for his own life, and you, when you babysit him, deprive him of this opportunity. In this way, you cripple not only your life, but also his life.
Another mistake is to forgive the beloved man too much. When you were little, you shouted and rebelled if something was not to your liking, and now, having become an adult woman, you swallow any insult, just to keep the man with you, just not to leave. Do not allow to speculate on your weakness - defend yourself. Love for you will not diminish, but there will be more respect. And you will love and respect yourself more. If you want to be loved - love yourself, if you want to be respected - start respecting yourself.
