There are several reasons why girls like unfree young people. This is the grooming of men in a couple, and their financial success, and some other important points.
Ideally, women would like their chosen one to become completely uninteresting to other young ladies immediately after the start of a relationship. But in reality it happens differently. Unfree young people sometimes attract girls even more than single ones. This happens for various reasons.
Worthy male
Some men notice that after they get married, they suddenly become more popular among the opposite sex. It turned out that on a subconscious level, the girls think: “He was chosen by another, probably, he has many advantages!”. The woman understands that there is something special in a busy man, for which the chosen one fell in love with him. So he definitely deserves her attention.
Just free men in adulthood (even with an ideal appearance, a tight wallet and an expensive car) are less interested in girls than handsome married men. When meeting the first, many questions immediately arise: why is he still not married, what is hiding and what terrible shortcomings doomed him to loneliness?
Unfree men are also attracted to women because they are certainly ready for long-term relationships. Meeting a new guy, the young ladies are worried: is he really serious about me? There are always fears that the young man is not yet ready for marriage, children, and has only planned a short stormy romance with his new darling. But a married man or just a long-term relationship man is definitely not looking for a lady for one night. He already imagines what a joint life is, what difficulties may await on this road.
Psychologists managed to find out an interesting fact: the more beautiful a girl is, the more interesting her companion is for other ladies. Women immediately begin to associate themselves with her and imagine that next to this very man they will look equally impressive and attractive.
Age of Success
It happens that the increased interest of women in a particular unfree man is explained not by his marital status, but by his financial condition. According to statistics, usually representatives of the stronger sex achieve success by the age of 35-40. At this age, they already have a decent car, their own housing, expensive jewelry and clothes that demonstrate status. And, of course, over the past time, most of the men have managed to build a family.
Girls who are looking not for true love, but for a certain material well-being, will first of all be interested in an adult man in a status car, and not a poor classmate student. And the spouse and children of a potential partner will be perceived by them exclusively as an unpleasant addition, while completely not interfering with flirtation and seduction.
Under such conditions, interest in unfree men is just a coincidence. Many girls are interested in wealthy (or even wealthy) partners. And most of the stronger sex only manage to achieve success by middle age. Of course, while climbing the career ladder, they get married and have children.
External appeal
Only a few men from an early age, while still single, begin to take good care of themselves and look great. In most cases, only a literate woman nearby helps them find their style, keep their wardrobe in perfect order, choose the right clothes, shoes and accessories for themselves. The wife reminds when to go for a haircut and independently writes the chosen one for a manicure or even helps him to take care of his nails at home.
At the disposal of an unfree young man there are clean ironed shirts, perfume with an attractive smell for girls, accessories that effectively complement the entire male image. Of course, such a guy automatically becomes more interesting to the young ladies around him. But a bachelor who spends time at the computer in worn-out "sweatpants" in the evenings will still have to work a lot. Not every lady can see behind the weekly unshaven and stale shirt of a handsome man.
Psychologists have proven that unfree young people are more attractive to strangers. But this does not mean at all that every man is just waiting for an unfamiliar beauty to beckon him. There are so many loyal representatives of the stronger sex who value their relationship and the woman next to them.
