The appearance of a child in a family is happiness, but not all men think so. If you are expecting a baby, and your spouse is not yet ready for this, you should try to find the strength in yourself and tell him about it.
Instructions
Step 1
Remember that such important news as pregnancy and the upcoming birth of a baby is very important, so you need to prepare very well for a conversation with a spouse who is not yet ready for children. Choose a day for a conversation with your loved one when he will be in a good mood. The place where you inform your husband about your pregnancy should not be crowded, it is best for you to be alone, so it is preferable to cook a delicious dinner this evening and stay at home.
Step 2
Start a conversation with the fact that you really love your soul mate, have lived together for a long time. Most likely, you have already accumulated some money, perhaps you have your own home and car. Say that you have long dreamed of becoming a mother and want your home to be filled with joyful children's laughter. See how your lover will react. Maybe he will start looking for excuses, telling you that he is not yet ready to become a father or doubts that he will be able to give the child a good upbringing or education. If the spouse let such tricks enter, try to assure him that a wonderful father would come out of him, praise his responsibility and seriousness, tell him that he is a real man who can cope with any difficulties.
Step 3
Wait for the reaction of your faithful. If he gives you a categorical refusal, and there is a quarrel between you, it is better to leave the announcement of such news until better times. If your husband began to doubt a little, you can tell him about your pregnancy and that together you will surely cope with all the problems, and you will make wonderful parents.
Step 4
It also happens that after the announcement of the upcoming birth of a child, the husband insists on an abortion. In this case, tell him that you are totally against it and will never take such a step. Tell your spouse that you will give birth to a child alone or with him, it doesn't matter to you. Say that you will solve all your problems on your own and will raise a great son or daughter. Only an adult, serious and responsible person is capable of such an act. Perhaps after such words, your beloved man will feel ashamed of his momentary weakness and cowardice, he will once again carefully weigh the pros and cons and decide that it is time for him to have offspring and live a happy and friendly family.
