Some people have communication problems. Not because they are stupid or ill-mannered, not at all! The point is that they are either shy or too delicate. For such a person, being in an awkward position or posing as tactless is real torture. He wants to enter into a discussion, he likes the girl, but he does not know how to choose the right words to start a conversation! He is tormented by doubts: whether they will understand correctly, whether they will not consider him shameless, arrogant. So what's the right way to start a conversation?
Instructions
Step 1
For example, let's say you want to chat with your coupe neighbors. It couldn't be easier! The beginning of a conversation like: “The road is long, let's get to know each other! My name is … in the overwhelming majority of cases, it works flawlessly.
Step 2
If you think this beginning is too trivial, you can choose some topic that will certainly interest those present. It is only better to avoid talking about what can cause strong passions and arguments. Remember the wise testament of Professor Preobrazhensky: "If you want to maintain health and good digestion, do not talk about Bolshevism and medicine before lunch!"
Step 3
Did you find a certain person interesting, do you want to get to know him, but do not know how to start a conversation? A good option is to first ask him some unobtrusive question, or ask for a simple service: "Can you tell me …?", "Pass, please …" After his reply, it will be much easier to start a conversation, because the first contact took place!
Step 4
If a girl, for example, carries a bag, which is clearly heavy for her, then God himself ordered to say: "Allow me, I will help you carry the bag!" Just try to make your voice sound cheerful and cheerful, and not tremble with excitement, and even more so do not shake. Indeed, in this case, the girl may suspect you of encroachment on her property, and either resolutely refuse to communicate, or shout: "Help, they are robbing!" And you don't want that kind of reaction at all, right?
Step 5
If you meet a girl you really like in a museum or theater, follow her reaction at the sight of a picture, play or acting. If she is clearly delighted, consider yourself lucky, and at the first opportunity, express your admiration: "What a beauty!" or "He played amazing today!" After that, the conversation will go like clockwork.
