Sometimes views on the continuation of the family line differ. If the spouse does not want to have children yet, there are several methods to convince him. It is important not to push too hard, but simply to create the right conditions.
Instructions
Step 1
Start planning your pregnancy by talking about babies. Pick the right time when everyone is calm, no one is in a hurry. Discuss, whenever he would like toddlers, how you would look at this question. It is important not just to talk about your desires, but to hear the words of your husband. It may be possible to come to a compromise that will suit all parties.
Step 2
When communicating, pay attention to more than just words. Sometimes the reason for the reluctance of children is the fear of having offspring, fear of additional responsibility. It is important to find out if your man has such emotions, or if something else prevents him from talking about pregnancy. It is necessary to find out the main reasons for reluctance, because a bright future, sufficient income or comfortable housing may never happen, so there is no need to wait for these stages.
Step 3
You can remove fear of children with the help of other families. Find couples who already have babies, visit them more often. The spouse must understand that pregnancy and the birth of a son or daughter are happiness that makes life wonderful, not difficult. At the same time, you can trust him with a stroller with a baby so that he begins to get used to it. Sometimes the husband just lacks knowledge about how to raise young children. By filling in those gaps, you can more quickly get them to agree.
Step 4
Tell your spouse regularly that your life would be happier if you had a baby. Talk about how important it is to you, how you dream of taking his son or daughter in your arms. Your enthusiasm can be infectious, maybe he will want to help you, agree with your desires. But here it is important not to do all this too often, if you say it every day - it will start to annoy. Be careful, do not get carried away, but do not give up on your plans either.
Step 5
You can get pregnant with the help of deception, if you stop using contraception, but do not tell your spouse about it. Of course, this is not the best method, as he may guess or get very upset from such news. Usually this is used in the most extreme cases, because the outcome is unpredictable, a man may even refuse to accept this child.
Step 6
In the worst case, you can put a man with a choice: either procreation or divorce. This is done only by those women who understand that they will not have another chance to give birth. After 40 years, there comes a period when you need to use the last opportunity. And here you no longer have to choose a husband or children, you should act, not wait.
