Asking a woman on a date is equally difficult if you know each other for a day or have known each other from school. The more you like a girl, the harder it is to take the first step. But don't despair. A good mood, a positive attitude and a few simple rules will help you withstand this difficult test with honor.
Instructions
Step 1
1 Think over the invitation ahead of time. A slight excitement is forgivable, but confused, confused speech will not add to your attractiveness in the eyes of a girl. Most women like it when a man is confident. However, you shouldn't confuse self-confidence with self-confidence. A girl would rather forgive excessive shyness than assertiveness or familiarity.
Step 2
Be natural. Don't try to turn into a man you think the woman you are interested in will like. People are often attracted to opposites. A strict business woman can look at quivering romantics, and a philology student can look at broad-shouldered athletes. It is impossible to guess women's preferences, since girls themselves often do not know who they like until they meet their man. Perhaps you.
Step 3
Choose the right moment. Do not approach a girl when she is upset or angry about something. Most likely, at such a moment, she will not want to talk to anyone, even if you want to cheer her up. It is unlikely that a woman will be pleased with the offer of a meeting immediately after a busy day. Not everyone can quickly switch from a work rhythm to a more relaxed type of communication.
Step 4
Ask for a date over the phone. This method is convenient if you don't come across too often. It has its merits and demerits. On the one hand, on the phone you will feel more relaxed and can better hide your excitement. On the other hand, you will not see the direct reaction of the interlocutor to the proposal: the thoughtful silence of the telephone receiver will tell less than a look or a movement of eyebrows. When making a date, be specific about the place and time. With excitement, you can confuse the metro station, and she misheard. To avoid misunderstandings, clarify the agreement again.
Step 5
If you cannot call or meet a woman in person, write about the invitation via SMS or via social networks. This one is also suitable for shy people. It is easier to write a short message than to apply in person. Remember that if it is easier for you to contact via the Internet, then it will not be so difficult for a girl to refuse. When asking a woman out on a first date, choose a less mediated method.
Step 6
Don't be discouraged when you get rejected. If the woman referred to being busy, it is quite possible that this is true. Sitting in a tower waiting for a handsome prince is not fashionable now, and a girl may have a hundred different things to do that prevent her from accepting an offer. Call her again in a few days or a week. But don't be too intrusive either. Gallant perseverance should not turn into pursuit. After two sentences, the woman will rate how interested you are. If the sympathy is mutual, she will invite you herself.
