The conclusion of a marriage contract is becoming more and more common in a civilized society. Those getting married want to be protected in the event of a broken marriage. However, it often happens that it is difficult for a man to be the first to start a conversation about concluding a marriage contract with his chosen one for fear of offending her. How can a man be able to painlessly solve this rather delicate, but important question?
Preliminary reconnaissance
If you have already decided for yourself that you definitely want to connect fate with your chosen one, but your plans also include the conclusion of a marriage contract, you can carefully find out the attitude of your lady to this issue. Be extremely tactful, especially if your beloved woman is romantic, vulnerable and sophisticated.
It is better to do this unobtrusively, for example, to seize a convenient moment while watching a TV program on a similar topic and try to talk to your chosen one. Be attentive to the reaction of your woman, because your further tactics depend on it.
You don't have to wait for television to come to your aid, but at dinner talk about some acquaintance (albeit a fictional one!), Who is supposedly getting married the other day and concluding a prenuptial agreement. And the bride does not mind the marriage contract at all, in general, everyone is happy. Unobtrusively observe how the woman will respond to your story, what thoughts she will express. Even her facial expressions can suggest a true attitude towards the marriage contract.
The "historical" argument
If you feel a woman's loyalty to the topic of a marriage contract in principle, then at some convenient moment, when the lady is clearly disposed to a friendly conversation, you can ask her: “How do you look at if we conclude a marriage contract with you? After all, this is a very correct and civilized approach to marriage. Try to explain to your bride that marriage contracts have a very ancient history and are beneficial for both parties.
Tell us that in the Russian Empire before the revolutionary coup of 1917, marriage contracts were commonplace. Property relations, sealed by an agreement, served as a guarantor against many problems and misunderstandings: throughout the entire period of marriage, and in the event of its dissolution, and at the death of one of the spouses. An example is the Russian poet A. S. Pushkin. It is known that after the tragic death of the poet, a significant part of his property was described for debts. However, his wife Natalya Nikolaevna, in accordance with the terms of the marriage contract, was able to regain her dowry - linen factories.
If you can convince the bride that you really care about her well-being and want her to feel confident and protected in any case, she is unlikely to object to the conclusion of the marriage contract.
Consider a very important point: at the first conversation, you do not need to immediately try to negotiate with the woman all the alleged points of the marriage contract, even if they have ripened in your head for a long time. By doing this, you can certainly not only offend her, but also push her away.
Business proposal
If your darling is an intelligent, businesslike and experienced woman, who is also wealthy, then the question about the marriage contract can be asked without lengthy "preludes", but simply during a joint meal or an evening walk. A sensible and loving woman will appreciate your directness and sincerity, moreover, if you already have a strong and trusting relationship.
If you beat around the bush for a long time before deciding to ask a question that worries you, the reaction of a wise woman may be from "and it was worth you to wait so long, dear?" to "I myself wanted to offer you this, let's discuss it."
