Raising a child is a complex process that requires maximum dedication and patience. It is necessary not only to carry out a methodical process of education, but also to make the baby happy. Unfortunately, not all parents know how to do this.
At first glance, everything seems simple enough. The kid needs to be loved, respected, pampered and so on. But where does this fine line go from love to permissiveness, from a sweet and calm child to an unruly bully? Do not be afraid to pamper children, the main thing is to internally feel when it is worth stopping. No wonder they say that all children are selfish. They expect (and sometimes demand) gifts and sweets from their parents, as they quickly get used to them. It is worth moderating this process for one simple reason: a child can grow up spoiled and uncontrollable.
But what should you do to make your child grow up happy?
First, it is worth teaching him to think positively. Positively minded people have an easier life in life. They endure difficulties better and solve complex problems faster, while remaining calm and reasonable.
Secondly, you need to make it clear to the baby that situations and actions should be assessed objectively. A positive attitude is, of course, important, but a sound assessment of what is happening is also needed.
Thirdly, the child should always be told that he is loved and that he is special. The main thing is not to overdo it. Everything is good in moderation. If the child does not feel this, then he may have complexes, there will be self-doubt. All this will affect his future life and his relationship with society.
Fourthly, you should not put pressure on the child and criticize him. If he does something wrong, then it should be conveyed to him calmly. Point by point, tell how to do it differently.
Fifth, you should always teach your child to achieve their goals. To do this, it is necessary to realistically assess the odds. There is no need to set impossible tasks for him. After a fiasco, the baby can close in himself and painfully experience it.
Be that as it may, you should always listen to your heart. It will tell you how to behave in different situations, and what needs to be done in order for the child to be happy.
