Love inspires and makes a person able to overcome all obstacles. But what if the object of sighing does not reciprocate? Down with self-flagellation and useless casting of tears into the pillow! Unrequited love can be beneficial if you look at feelings with different eyes.
1. Source of inspiration. Often, unrequited love reveals a talent for poetry. Just do not write dull verses full of thoughts about the injustice of life and unwillingness to live without a loved one. After all, love is a bright feeling. For a person to notice your passionate impulse, direct a ray of the sun on him - praise the love in your heart and rejoice that the loved one is doing well.
Do not know how to cope with the surging feelings - read "Pomegranate bracelet" by A. I. Kuprin, and you will find out what it is like to love someone with whom you are not destined to be together.
2. Change for the better. Love without reciprocity is an excellent reason to reconsider your position in life, to think: “Why don’t they love me?”, To change interests or appearance, to lose weight, finally, and to learn how to dress stylishly.
3. Prioritization. Sometimes it is worth taking a sober look at your experiences from the outside, especially when it comes to passionate love for an idol. It is quite normal to love an actor or singer for his professional qualities, but it is necessary to understand that people from the world of show business can be far from the image created for the sake of creativity.
It is easy to love at a distance, but you try to get to know a person better, spend some time with him. Perhaps you will realize that you have suffered in vain, or, on the contrary, with your activity, turn the situation in your direction - turn unrequited love into a romantic union of two loving hearts.
