The ability to love is the greatest gift that brings both great happiness and painful disappointment or severe psychological trauma for life if love turns out to be unrequited.
According to psychologists' estimates, about 80% of people, both women and men, experience unrequited love in their lives. Unrequited love can take different forms and overtake a person at any age. Is it really so bad to experience the feeling that the consequences of unrequited love can lead to? Such strong emotions served as the impetus for writing many poems and songs, wonderful literary works, and formed the basis for the plots of many films. If you're already out of luck and you've met someone who doesn't reciprocate your feelings, there are several ways to fix the situation. The first option is to seek reciprocity. The main thing here is not to overdo it and not to frighten off the object with your obsession. Try to be imbued with his interests, enter his environment, be sure to show that you feel sympathy and give him the right to choose, at least let him think so. If this option is not possible, you can wait. Make friends, communicate, live your usual life, but remind yourself at any opportunity. Perhaps something will change in the life of your chosen one or chosen one, views will change, a person will understand that happiness is right there. If, nevertheless, the efforts were in vain, and the heart aches and aches at the mere mention of the object of your unrequited love, experts recommend that you forget and move on, filling your life with new interests and friends. Leading an active lifestyle, a person will be physically tired, he will not just have the strength to sob into his pillow at night and will not have enough time for bad thoughts, which can lead to irreparable consequences. And most importantly, there will be a chance and new opportunities to find true, mutual love, experience all its joys and create a full-fledged family in which healthy and happy children will grow up. Psychologists and people who have experienced unrequited love argue that there is nothing terrible and tragic in it, this is only proof that a person is capable of strong feelings and is worthy of happiness. You should not waste a lot of time on empty suffering - you need to live a full life, in which there is great mutual love for each person.
