Jealousy is a negative feeling that sometimes ruins even a good relationship. She gives trouble to those who are jealous and those who are jealous. The cause of jealousy can be self-doubt, low self-esteem. Coping with this feeling can be difficult, but necessary.
Sometimes a woman begins to be jealous of her husband for his past, especially if he was already married. Her feelings are understandable and, according to psychologists, are normal. The main thing is not to cross the line beyond which tantrums and accusations begin. Even if the relationship with the ex-wife is far in the past, the woman can still be jealous of her. If there are children in the past marriage, and the husband maintains a relationship with them, jealousy can only increase. In this case, you need to remember that you knew that he had a family, but this did not affect the decision to marry.
Do not limit the communication of the husband with the children, because even after the divorce the wife became the former, the children remain in his life forever. If your husband asks for permission to bring them to your home, do not refuse him, because this will only strengthen your relationship. Do not blame your husband for sometimes helping his ex-wife who is raising his children. But if there were no children in the past marriage, and the ex often calls your husband for various reasons, you should talk to him and ask him to stop communicating, because this is unpleasant for you. The main thing is not to stoop to abuse and insults. Often unfounded accusations provoke a backlash and instead of listening to the words of his wife, a man may start to spite her. If the scandals and accusations continue, the husband may get tired of it, and he will try to end the relationship in which he is so uncomfortable.
Try to devote more time to yourself. Exercise, visit a beauty salon, remember your hobbies. Start your day with a smile and try to spend it in a positive way. Learn to love yourself and accept who you are. Do not torment yourself and your husband with jealousy. Spend time with him more often, walk, watch films, share your impressions. Allow yourself to be happy, and then jealousy will not torment you. Learn to trust your husband, because you want to live with him all your life. It is impossible to keep a man neither by children, nor by an apartment, nor by pity: he will remain with a woman with whom he is calm, warm and comfortable.
