It is always unpleasant to realize that your interlocutor is telling a lie, but it is even more unpleasant to believe in a deliberate lie and feel stupid. How to determine if the interlocutor is cheating on you?
Instructions
Step 1
When communicating with a person, carefully monitor his gestures, facial expressions and emotions - they can tell a lot about whether a person is lying or telling the truth. The gestures of the person who deliberately lies become constrained and slightly fussy.
Step 2
The person unconsciously pulls his hands to his face, tries to cover his ears, hands or eyes with them, touches his nose or ear, and also looks away if you try to look into his eyes.
Step 3
Lying is manifested in a sharp change in emotional color - the interlocutor can speak very emotionally, but all emotions can suddenly and abruptly disappear, and then just as suddenly appear again. The deceiver may slow down or, on the contrary, too harshly and quickly react to your words and remarks.
Step 4
His facial expression and intonation often do not correspond to each other - he can smile where there is no reason to smile, and his facial expressions may be completely unrelated to his speech. If a liar talks about something pleasant and joyful, his face can be sullen and sullen.
Step 5
Watch the expression of your eyes when the interlocutor smiles - if the gaze remains fixed and the lips smile - most likely, you are deceiving.
Step 6
Eye movements in general can identify a liar well - when touching on an unpleasant topic for him, the eyes move sharply to the right up and then to the left down, avoiding looking directly at you.
Step 7
If a person is lying, he will rub his eyelids with his fingers, cover his eyes and cover them with his hands. The liar's hands constantly feel the need to fiddle with and fiddle with.
Step 8
In the process of communication, the deceiver will try with all his might to avert his eyes from you, and also unconsciously fence himself off from you with various objects - a mug, a bottle, a book or something else.
Step 9
With a specific question, a liar can evade a clear answer, giving you vague hints instead of specifics, avoiding pronouns and bright intonation in speech, and also trying to get away from the topic.
