A rare woman does not want her husband to be caring, generous and considerate. Unfortunately, there are not so many ideal men, but you can create a gallant gentleman even from the most uncouth rude. To get what you want from a man, you need to add a little trickery to the relationship.
Instructions
Step 1
Praise your husband as often as possible. You must show him your approval in any way. In this way, you will raise your man's self-esteem. By accustoming your husband to the fact that he does everything perfectly, you can easily manipulate him. To get a man to do what you need to do is enough to do without praise. He will get worried and try to get approval. At this point, say that you will be very pleased if he helps you do the right things. This also applies to gifts. React to any little thing as if your husband is Santa Claus, who surprised you indescribably and guessed your desire. After that, the man will strive to please you as often as possible.
Step 2
Learn to save money if your husband doesn't like spending money on you. Demonstrate the ability to spend money wisely for some time. Having made sure that you are an economical housewife and spend all your money only for the common good, he will fearlessly trust you with his money. Now, having won the trust of your husband, you can sometimes afford to spend that only concerns you. But be careful and don't waste large sums. Believe me, it will not work to justify the purchase of a fur coat with the increased price of groats. And remember that the emergence of new things needs to be explained somehow. Therefore, it is better to set aside small amounts and add the accumulated amount to what the husband will then give to buy your things. Such savings in their favor will be less noticeable.
Step 3
Try not to criticize your husband for every little thing. If a man gets used to the fact that in most cases you agree with him and support him, he will begin to listen to you. If you want to instill something in a man, then do it gently, advising. After making a decision, be sure to praise and pretend that it was his idea. Always demonstrate to the man and your friends that he is the master of your house. The husband will be proud of himself, and you will be able to influence him without conflict.
