Finding out about his wife's cheating is probably one of the strongest male fears. And nevertheless, a rare man will agree to be in the role of a deceived and refuse the opportunity to learn about such an unpleasant event for himself. What are the symptoms of infidelity and how do you know if your spouse is unfaithful?
Instructions
Step 1
If you sincerely love your wife, communicate with her often and are attentive to what is happening in her soul, you will simply feel that something is amiss. She will stop being frank, begin to hide her eyes, be ashamed of you, answer confused or evasively to simple questions from the series, and what movie did you watch with a friend or what your mother gave you last Sunday. You will feel that her thoughts are somewhere far away, that she is thinking about something (or rather about someone else). If at this moment you unexpectedly touch her, she will shudder and you will see fear in her eyes - for a second she will decide that you overheard her thoughts.
Step 2
Changes can begin to occur in bed, too. Either she will grow cold towards you, or vice versa, the sexual side of your relationship will become more frequent and bright. So the cheating spouse subconsciously tries to protect herself from unnecessary accusations of coldness or to make amends. Your wife feels like a person who is giving away something that is rightfully yours, and therefore she tries to ensure that you are not deprived of it.
Step 3
Men do not tend to pay attention to little things, but this is exactly the case when you should take a closer look. If your spouse changed her hairstyle, and she took your compliment rather coldly, you should be wary - this trip to the salon was not for you. Bright manicure and pedicure, neckline, high heels in everyday life, bright tight-fitting outfits, jewelry - unless, of course, all of this was previously peculiar to your wife and was dressed only on weekends or never at all - all these are symptoms of a new attractive man for your wife in her life. Perhaps, there was no betrayal yet, but she is already striving to please this "someone".
Step 4
If by chance you found in the dryer new sexy underwear that was not presented to you as something special, bought for some important occasion for you, or fishnet stockings, and to your praise, the lady, instead of the joyful radiance of her eyes, turned the conversation to another topic, then you can be sure that you were not chosen as the viewer when demonstrating this purchase. It happens, of course, that a woman just decided to pamper herself and bought herself a luxurious bustier. But in this case, if she has no other men, she will share this joy with you, do not hesitate!
Step 5
Needless to say that a disconnected phone or, on the contrary, constant sms, setting a password on a phone and an e-mail box, if previously access was open for you there, should also lead you to thoughts of a certain kind. The mobile phone has long turned for everyone not only as a way of communicating in necessary situations. He personifies personal space and personal life. This is a way of being together, as it were, for people with families. A way to tell you how you feel in the morning. A way to show tenderness and care. Rarely does anyone refuse this means of communication.
Step 6
Listen to what your wife has to say. Who is she talking about. If the name of one of her colleagues pops up more often than others, it is not casual. This is the same Freudian slip of the tongue. It is very difficult to hide your thoughts and feelings from a loved one. You can't always be on the lookout. The person relaxes at home and can just let it out.
The same applies to some new judgments and phrases. We absorb other people's words and other people's views on life. In addition, women are by nature inclined to adapt and look at the world through the prism of the views of their man. Therefore, the new male person in your wife's life will affect her way of thinking and expressing her thoughts. He will inevitably bring something new into her life: habits, tastes, phrases. You will notice it all. Of course, if you are really close to your wife, and do not live like two roommates.
