The girl sometimes finds herself in such a situation: she met a good guy, she really liked him, she wanted to get to know him better. She tries in every possible way to hint to him that he should take the initiative and speak to her. And the guy is silent for some reason. So guess: either she is not in his taste, or he is timid, shy. It's time to speak first, to take the initiative, but the language does not turn. And as luck would have it, the guy doesn't get it.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to convince yourself that there is absolutely nothing shameful or reprehensible in the fact that you are the first to approach the guy and talk to him. Now, after all, it is not the old days when it really could cause general condemnation. The main thing is to be modest, restrained, with dignity. Remember, guys don't like frivolous girls who are too casual.
Step 2
If you still can't make up your mind to start a conversation, use a simple and effective psychological trick. Try to remember a moment when in childhood you had to overcome a strong fear or embarrassment, stiffness. For example, when learning to swim, when you were still afraid of the depth, or when you were asked to read something out loud at a children's concert, and you were embarrassed by strangers. But they overpowered themselves. Now, convince yourself that you should not be afraid of the conversation. You will immediately see that there is nothing wrong with that.
Step 3
A good way to start a conversation is to ask the young man with a simple, natural question or with a request for a trivial, easy service. Best start: "Sorry, could you …". Don't forget to smile, thank you politely. And there, word for word, a conversation will start.
Step 4
If you have inquired about this guy and you know what his tastes and hobbies are, it will be very easy for you to start a conversation. You just need to wait for the right moment and then, as if by chance, drop: "But I heard …". And give out some information regarding the subject of his hobbies. Just try not to sound tense or, even worse, ridiculous. The guy will be very pleased to find a kindred spirit, he will certainly gladly answer. And then everything is in your hands. And, of course, when starting a conversation with a guy, do not forget for a minute about the magical power of gaze and intonation.
