Breaking up is never easy, especially for women. There is a feeling of insecurity and emptiness. Some girls remain in love with their boyfriends for a long time and strive to return everything back. A lot can be achieved by changing behavior. Analyze your mistakes, reconsider your principles, then you have a real chance to bring the guy back.
Instructions
Step 1
Assess the situation and find out for yourself what made you break up with your boyfriend or what made him break up with you. The reason for the breakup is an important moment for the restoration of the relationship. If the reason was serious and offensive to one of you, such as cheating, cheating, humiliation, think carefully before taking any further action.
Step 2
Guys quit if they are not satisfied with something in the relationship or in the girl herself. Try to return to the girl he fell in love with at the very beginning. However, this is another reason to think about whether he really loved you, or was he in love with the image that you first created for him. You did not stand still, your personality developed and changed, and if he cannot accept you the way you have become, then, perhaps, together and not destined to be at all.
Step 3
You can return a guy by continuing to communicate with mutual friends. One way or another, you will constantly collide in a common company, you will have to maintain easy communication, and at some point, feelings may flare up again. At the same time, you should not tell mutual friends about your ideas and plans, share your experiences with them, ask for help, so as not to disrupt the natural course of things and the cyclical return of relations with your ex-boyfriend.
Step 4
If you have a warm friendship between you, just talk to your ex-boyfriend on the phone or over a cup of coffee. Let him know how bad you feel, how you worry and suffer, that your feelings have not faded away. You may be given another chance. Be extremely honest with your boyfriend - this is highly valued and credible. It is advisable to ask what went wrong in the relationship and what should be corrected in the behavior.
Step 5
Finally, accept your breakup internally. This means that you have to be ready to let go of the guy. When a relationship ends and a woman refuses to let go of her other half, she sends a very clear signal of despair and suffering. It's pretty humiliating for her. Try to calm down, behave smoothly, easily and not express complete dependence on your ex and the willingness to endlessly wait for a second chance. Instead, hold your head up, embrace the break, and wish it all the best. If he still has strong feelings for you, he'll be quick to voice concerns that the relationship is really over for good, and he'll be the first to take the initiative.
