Parting does not always go unnoticed for both partners. Very often, someone remains offended and takes out anger on the former second half, or, conversely, tries to improve relations. In any case, you need to find words to calm the person who was once so dear.
Instructions
Step 1
If your ex bothers you with calls and requests for meetings, agree to the conversation once. Meet somewhere in a public place to prevent a scandal. Behave calmly, do not succumb to provocation. Firmly refuse the offer to renew the relationship. You shouldn't play around and say “I don’t know” or “I’ll think about it” if you firmly decided that this person is not your match. Otherwise, persistent courtship will never stop. Yes, perhaps a sharp refusal will offend a man. But on the other hand, he will not call you for a long time, and then he will completely forget.
Step 2
But what if the partner was the initiator of the breakup? And now he offers to see and talk for some reason. If you do not want to see him and your feelings have faded, just refuse by phone. And if you are hoping for a renewal of the relationship, you should agree to a meeting. Choose a place where you feel comfortable and confident. Talk to your ex as a friend. Don't make the first offer, let the guy speak up. Perhaps he called you simply because it was boring and there was no one to spend the evening with. In a conversation, everything will be clarified, do not rush. If your ex really understands that he loves you, do not immediately agree. Let him seek you again. Men are hunters, and the elusive prey is more interesting for them than the one that rushes into their hands.
Step 3
If you don't want to hang out with your ex at all, tell him so. Come up with new relationships, even if they don't exist. Try to explain that your feelings have died out and will never return. Advise him to start building his own personal life and forget about you. If this does not help, you will have to change the phone number. Or at least for a while, until the passions subside, turn it off.
