Sometimes situations arise when love and relationships become a burden, and a person decides that it is better for him to be alone. In this case, it is necessary to correctly inform the other half about this, so as not to cause her mental suffering.
Instructions
Step 1
Decide if you really want to break up with your loved one. Weigh the pros and cons and see which outweighs. It is better not to rush with this decision, since the desire to break up with a girl can be temporary and arise for reasons such as quarrel, stress, jealousy, the need to leave, etc. You should be aware that there will likely be no way back.
Step 2
Tune in to a serious conversation with your significant other, think over all your possible phrases, her reaction to such a statement. Immediately decide how you will calm the girl down, whether you will be able to communicate with her in the future.
Step 3
Try to get the girl into the conversation yourself. Keep a dejected look for several days, talk to your significant other as little as possible. Remember all the negative things that the girl dislikes the most about you. For example, start spending more time with friends again, stop giving her gifts, forget about romance for a while. Over time, the girl herself will want to talk to you and will immediately understand that something is wrong with the relationship.
Step 4
Chat in a relaxed atmosphere. List all the reasons why you want to break up. Don't raise your voice or swear. There is no need to name all the negative traits of the girl, this will further upset her. Parting with a loved one is always very difficult, but if she understands you, she will steadfastly withstand the loss.
Step 5
Be prepared for a possible scandal on the part of the girl. Just in case, put away personal items, as well as various dangerous items. Speak only face to face, in no case do not sort things out by phone or by correspondence on the Internet. It is important that you are there and immediately help the girl to calm down.
Step 6
Observe the girl's behavior after your breakup. If she is depressed for a long time, do not try to talk to her, it will only get worse. Try asking one of your mutual friends to talk to her and calm her down.
