Many children do not know how to get to know each other, start a friendship, talk with peers, they are shy and do not know where to start communication. Often this ability develops over time, the older the child, the easier it is for him.
The process of learning this skill begins at birth and is formed in parallel with growing up. Therefore, the most difficult stage of this issue falls on the school years. From how a child manifests himself in the classroom, how he learns to express himself in a team, perform tasks, answer in front of a large number of people, his future is formed.
Many parents are faced with the problem of motivating schoolchildren to study. They can often hear children complaining about classmates. And later they can get the child's refusal from school. This problem is relevant for almost every family, however, it is necessary to find a solution. To do this, parents need to understand the main indicators of such negative moments.
Of course, every child after attending school not only gets tired physically and mentally, but also experiences stress. After all, he is trying to integrate into a new, unfamiliar environment, in which there are many strangers and extraneous noise. The baby has a huge responsibility for his academic performance and he needs to learn to live according to the schedule. Parents and teachers need to control the process of adaptation of the student in the team.
Surprisingly, many difficulties can be avoided by forming a craving for new knowledge in the child. Children by nature grow up inquisitive, they want to gain knowledge and strive for it. It is the responsibility of the parents not to discourage these desires from the baby. He needs help to develop, for example, to visit theaters, museums, exhibitions. In this case, the child himself will want to learn new things and will be drawn to gaining knowledge.
If a student complains of misunderstanding on the part of classmates or teachers, then mom and dad should not ignore this question. But in such a situation, it is important to remain objective. It is necessary to listen to several sides and opinions on this issue. Don't get excited. It is possible that the child is not absolutely right in his behavior. It is important to teach your child to make compromises with other people.
In this case, mutual understanding will reign. You should also not overpraise the baby or, on the contrary, unreasonably scold him. In doing this or that action, the parent must understand the child's side and punish or praise the child to the extent that he deserves it. It is also worth improving the relationship between parents and the teacher. It will not be superfluous to talk with psychologists. Then, if necessary, you can ask for advice.
Love for learning, knowledge of the world around, for development is laid in the family, and it is the parents who are responsible for these qualities. Therefore, if something did not go as the parent expects, it is necessary to reconsider the relationship in the family.
