Quite often, a child refuses to go to kindergarten during the period of adaptation to a preschool institution. Over time, the situation will change for the better, but before that, parents need to acquire patience.
The reasons that the child does not want to go to the garden can be very different - from inability to perceive separation from parents to not love for the teacher, regime, food. Therefore, in each case, parents will have to find out on their own.
It is necessary to accustom the child to the garden in advance, and not immediately before the mother leaves maternity leave to work. Even before this moment, it is necessary to tell the child how fun and interesting it is in the kindergarten, but for now he is too young to go there and play with other children. Then he will look forward to visiting the kindergarten as a holiday.
First, the baby is taken on a day walk so that he can get to know the teacher and the children. Then the residence time is increased and gradually brought to a whole day. But if even after that the child does not go to kindergarten, but is looking for all the ways to stay at home, the parents will have to be ready for a difficult struggle.
Firstly, you cannot show weakness, follow the lead and leave the child at home, as well as feel sorry for him. Feeling that he can manipulate his parents, the baby will be capricious even more. Liberalism in this situation will only aggravate the situation.
Second, try to find a compromise. If the reason lies in the menu that is unpleasant for the child, gradually accustom him to kindergarten dishes by cooking them at home. When the child does not like the teacher or there is no common language with the team, you can try to negotiate with the administration and be present in the group with the child for some time to make sure of what is happening in person. This will help the child adapt faster.
But in any case, the child should initially know that the garden is for him the same responsibility as work for the parents. And then he will understand that the struggle is pointless here, and will be forced to look for positive moments in the kindergarten.
