It rarely happens that both partners decide to end the relationship. Most often this happens at the initiative of one of them. In this case, one of the least painful ways to say the last “I'm sorry” is a breakup letter.
Instructions
Step 1
Take a piece of paper or sit at your computer and try to write down all the words that you would like to say to your other half. For starters, don't cross out or edit anything. Only after the words run out, look at the resulting text with a fresh eye.
Step 2
Make the letter logical. Your loved one has the right to know about the reason for the separation. If there was an objective reason (new love, inability to wait for the end of separation), write about it, no matter how cruel it sounds. Be aware that with this letter you want to put an end to the relationship, so it should be categorical, albeit gentle.
Step 3
Write in such a way that you don't give up hopelessness or make promises. If you have made the decision to inform your other half of your intention to break up through a letter, be consistent. Don't speculate on shared romantic memories, even if you enjoy thinking about the moments you shared together. For you, they have already become history, and your former lover will seem like a chance to return everything.
Step 4
Say thank you for everything that happened in your relationship. As an initiator of a breakup, you can make your ex feel a little bit easier by thanking him sincerely for everything you went through with him.
Step 5
One of the options for a letter of separation may be the following text: “We can no longer be together. I know how much it hurts you, but I cannot do otherwise. Perhaps someday in the future you will understand me and forgive me. I am sure you will meet your happiness, and everything will be fine with you. Thank you for everything that was between us. I am sorry again.
