From the very birth, the child receives new knowledge about the world around him, and, starting from the age of seven, all children receive this knowledge in a systematic way, from school teachers. Parents of young schoolchildren often face a common problem - if in primary school the interest in new subjects is still strong enough, in secondary school the children do not want to learn and do not show interest in lessons. How should parents behave if their children are disappointed in their studies and have lost interest in it?
Instructions
Step 1
Remember that the child enjoys the school lesson if the lesson is taught by a pleasant and friendly teacher with whom the children have developed a good relationship, and if the topic of the lesson is interesting to the child and he shows some success in its study.
Step 2
For a child to truly succeed in school, he must believe in himself and not tune in to failure - which means that his parents must believe in him. Raise your child so that he feels the strength and ability to solve difficult problems. Trust in his strength and do not overload the child with excessive demands.
Step 3
Your child's success should make you happy - praise him, pay attention to the merits, not the demerits. By highlighting your child's shortcomings, you will lead to the fact that he ceases to enjoy learning, believing that he will not succeed. Do not force the child to beg for your praise - praise and encourage the student as often as possible if you see that he has achieved some result.
Step 4
Do not develop complexes in the child - you should not tell him that he must be an excellent student. Rejoice in any child's successes, ask in which areas he is most successful in showing his knowledge.
Step 5
Don't scare or devalue your child - let him know that you respect his choice, whatever it may be. This will give the child a lot of strength for further creative and intellectual development, for moving forward.
Step 6
Pay attention to what the child really cares about. Do not try to impose your own interests on him - support his hobbies.
Step 7
If your child likes one subject and doesn't like another, help him get the most knowledge in the area of interest. Take your child's hobbies seriously - this is the only way he can achieve something meaningful in life.
