School is the place where everything happens for the first time: first lesson, first grade, friendship and falling in love. But how difficult it is to take this step - to come up and meet the person you like!
How to meet a guy at school
Try to find out more about the guy you like. It is very important to have "trump cards" in your hands, with the help of which one could unobtrusively make acquaintance with him. Knowing that the guy is smart and well versed in the exact sciences, you can ask him for help. At the same time, you can definitely offer something in return.
For example, if this is your classmate, you probably know about his weaknesses (for example, he is poor at writing dictations). If the guy is older or younger than you, use your information about his hobbies and offer him exactly what might interest him.
After that, remind him of yourself more often, but unobtrusively. As often as possible, catch his eye. To do this, find out his lesson schedule and start practicing "random meetings", while not forgetting to exchange a couple of phrases. So, for example, in the dining room you can ask "what do we have for lunch today?" or "you have been constantly helping me out lately, what can you advise here from the edible?"
However, it is important not to look too intrusive while doing this. Otherwise, you can annoy and annoy the guy.
In the corridor, you can ask where any office is located or if he has seen the teacher in English. Alternatively, you can simply ask for help again with something.
During these meetings, if you feel a response, start a conversation with the guy. Talk to him about your common teachers, talk about a recent school event or a new movie (concert, etc.). But in no case tell him "tell something." This is one of those questions that baffle the interlocutor. Ask if he is on social media. If yes, you can add him as a friend.
If none of the tips have worked, consider that this may not be your person. In this case, you should not waste energy on continuing communication. In addition, it is possible that if you stop showing your boyfriend your interest and start talking to another young man, he may start looking for meetings with you.
How to meet a girl at school
Basically, the advice for dating a guy isn't much different from dating a girl. However, there are a few things to consider for a guy who wants to win a girl's heart.
Be proactive. As a rule, brave, energetic guys in the form of a "bad boy" are much more likely to meet a girl than a shy and insecure "good boy".
Be the initiator. Girls like it when a guy takes matters into his own hands. Liked the girl - do not be shy, feel free to come up and meet. There are many places in the school where you can do this. In addition to the dining room, corridor and gym (assembly hall), during the lesson, under any pretext, call her out of the classroom and send a short note with your phone number, "nickname" on the social network and the phrase "I'll be waiting."
Offer to help the girl with the lessons she is struggling with.
If you are unable to overcome shyness and anxiety in yourself, you can find her on social networks and start a correspondence with her. However, keep in mind that girls usually don't like overly intrusive and pessimistic romantics. Try to intrigue her, arouse her interest. Talk to her about her hobbies or films that she likes. Then you can suggest going to the movies with her.
If in response to your actions you observe only silence and misunderstanding, do not be discouraged. You will definitely find one that will appreciate you.
Don't be afraid to take the first step! Tune in to the positive, and you will succeed.
