If on the first date, the atmosphere seems a little tense, then perhaps the couple did not find a common language and the date failed. How to determine that an acquaintance has failed?
Instructions
Step 1
The first date is always exciting. If one of the parties does not express any embarrassment, not the slightest hint of excitement and timidity, it rather speaks of indifference. The person does not feel any emotions, because he no longer plans to ever meet and there is no need to try to please, or be afraid to do something wrong.
Step 2
Almost any girl tends to play with her eyes, flashing her eyes, she can easily attract the attention of a man she likes. Therefore, the more she looks into your eyes, the more sparks in her gaze, the better. If her attention is directed to anything other than you, this is a clear sign that you are not arousing any interest in her.
Step 3
Tactile contact is very important. If a girl really liked you, she will try in every possible way to touch you imperceptibly, to lean in your direction. If there was no such light physical contact and the distance between you was not reduced by a centimeter, it’s a failure.
Step 4
An obvious manifestation of the girl's disinterest will be indicated by an uninterrupted contact with the phone. If she does not stop sending SMS messages, or is just on social networks, this is a clear hint that she is waiting for you to leave her alone.
Step 5
The conversation doesn't fit in any way. You go out of your way, retelling all possible funny stories and anecdotes, and the girl with an indifferent smile just shakes her head and does not at all strive to maintain a conversation.
Step 6
Everyone knows about the taboo topic on the first date, former lovers. A girl may deliberately break the rules and indulge in stories about a wonderful time with someone else.
Step 7
If, after talking for an hour and a half in a cafe, you propose to change the situation and take a walk, and the girl begins to talk about urgent matters that still remain, most likely, she wants to get rid of you as soon as possible. After all, interested people who feel good together will try to continue being together as long as possible.
Step 8
If a girl immediately after the date throws a short "goodbye" and leaves, this is an unkind sign. After all, no matter how awkward and protracted the farewell, it is a more natural situation for two people who feel mutual sympathy.