If desired, a woman can provide the family with a continuous "war" or, on the contrary, an almost cloudless peace. The first option is not the best. Scandals, tantrums, mutual recriminations, it is quite possible that they will lead to divorce. The second option is more reasonable, but requires a lot of effort and the ability to negotiate with her husband.
Instructions
Step 1
Learn to control your emotions. Women often have a talent for "nagging" their husbands, constantly expressing dissatisfaction with something. It does not occur to them: a lot from a man can be achieved through praise, and not endless swearing. Realizing that for any business he is "shining" hysterics, he will begin to argue with you about and without him, simply from resentment and from principle. And, on the contrary, when the husband knows: the beloved will be sincerely delighted with a good deed, will strive to make you happy. This means that he will try not to go into conflict once again, but to agree. Therefore, before throwing out a "sea" of negative feelings on his head, think carefully about whether it is worth doing.
Step 2
As soon as there is a quarrel, sit down "at the negotiating table." Think about which is better to choose: mutual insults, reproaches that will lead to resentment and silence, or a calm conversation that promotes mutual understanding. Probably the second way you like it better. If you want to build a strong family, not destroy it, you will have to be patient and replenish your vocabulary. After all, it is sometimes so difficult to negotiate peacefully. But it is within your power to achieve this goal.
Step 3
Use little feminine tricks. Agree with all the arguments that your husband will give. Recognize his leadership - this step will surely amuse his pride, relax, and give confidence that you will not argue. But it is precisely such a moment that you need to catch in order to begin carefully, without haste, in small portions to give out your thoughts on this or that occasion. If you try hard, then sooner or later, you will hear your thoughts from your husband. After such work done, you can easily agree with your beloved about anything. At the same time, he will sincerely be sure that the last word remains with him.
