Since childhood, all girls dream of finding a wonderful husband, planning a beautiful wedding down to the smallest detail. However, what awaits after this bright and important event? Is everything so rosy and sweet? Is it worth it to throw all your strength into getting married as soon as possible?
Habits
Each of you throughout your life has formed your own, special habits. They are not always pleasant. Of course, you can try to retrain your partner, but these attempts are unlikely to be crowned with success, because these habits have been formed over the years. We'll have to put up. Gritting your teeth to endure scattered things or a dirty table, an abandoned toothbrush or the habit of throwing shoes in the middle of the corridor. Undoubtedly, this is not the worst thing that can happen in a person's life, but not everyone is ready to get along with the shortcomings of another person.
Domestic Violence Threat
It's no secret that violence is rampant in many families. Wives suffer, husbands suffer, children suffer. To our great regret, it is not always possible to recognize a domestic tyrant in a person and there remains a risk of falling under the hot hand. It is very fine if you are 100% confident in your partner, but no one is immune from problems of this kind and sometimes those from which one could not expect are betrayed.
meetings with friends
With marriage, there are a lot of new, additional responsibilities and a certain responsibility to your family. Meetings with friends and girlfriends will very quickly be reduced to a minimum due to the lack of time and energy. It is also highly likely that your partner will not arrange your gatherings in the evenings and over time he will begin to express his objections, which will inevitably lead to conflicts within the family. It will be very great if you are able to correctly allocate your free time and your opportunities. However, experience shows that not everyone succeeds in this.
Household duties
With the weekend getting married, certain responsibilities fall on the shoulders of each girl. This is washing, cleaning, ironing, cooking, etc. With the advent of a child, the number of these tasks will double. Is it a matter of living alone? You can cook anything, whenever you want, or even spit on everything and go to a restaurant and dine on what the professionals have prepared for you. There is very little washing, as well as cleaning. You yourself plan what and when to do, and when you can be lazy.
Family budget
Now you will almost always need to report on your purchases and face a choice: buy something for yourself or it is better to buy something more useful for the family. Yes, there will be more income, but expenses will also double, or even triple.
Despite all the above reasons, nothing will ever be able to dissuade two loving hearts from entering into a sacred union and creating their own unit of society.
Great happiness to you!
