Some guys do not rush to the registry office, even if they are in a long-term relationship. Here, your close friend, three months after they met, is already trying on a wedding dress, and you have been together for two years, and he always convinces you that the stamp in your passport will not change anything. In order not to rush to tie the knot, men have a number of reasons, ranging from psychological problems to completely earthly, materialistic considerations.
Instructions
Step 1
Unsuccessful previous marriage
Some men take their divorce very hard. Sometimes they may have psychological trauma for a long time. On sleepless nights, they swear to themselves many times that they will never again be bound by official relations. It is extremely difficult to convince such men to believe in women again. They will find a lot of excuses not to apply to the registry office. They will tell you for a long time that at the beginning of their previous relationship, they were also doing well, and then the marriage broke up anyway. You shouldn't waste time convincing him that things will be different now. He remembered his previous experience of family life for a long time and it is not known when he will decide to tie the knot again.
Step 2
He gets everything anyway
Previously, the average man could enjoy regular sex only after marriage, and this fact was a powerful incentive to force a man to marry. Now all couples and without marriage have sex and a girl who keeps her virginity before marriage is a huge rarity. If all the joys of sex can be obtained without obligation, then why bind yourself with your family and limit your freedom.
Step 3
His mom doesn't like you
For some men, the opinion of his mother is very important, it just so happened and nothing can be done about it. Sometimes mother's love knows no bounds. It seems to the mother that her son deserves a better woman, and he listens to her opinion and is very afraid to hurt her, neglecting the opinion of the woman who once gave him life.
Step 4
He doesn't want to share his property
You need to clearly understand for yourself what you are in relation to your chosen one. In the modern world, there are fewer Cinderellas who have found a selfless prince, while having nothing behind their souls. If a man has his own living space, a country house, an expensive car and a bank account, then he will be very careful about all applicants for his hand and heart. Of course, such a man is very popular with women, but getting him to marry is sometimes very difficult.
Step 5
He doesn't want to take responsibility
Even if at the moment you earn no less than him, you must understand that soon this situation will change dramatically, because with the birth of a child, a woman becomes completely dependent on her husband for several years. Some men sincerely do not want to enter into an official marriage, because they are afraid that they will not be able to cope with the responsibility for the family.
Step 6
He wants to create a solid foundation for marriage.
If a man himself grew up in difficult conditions, for example, in a one-room apartment with his parents, grandmother and younger sister, then he wants to create normal conditions for his family life. In his head, the idea was firmly entrenched that in order to get married, it was necessary to achieve a lot in life: to acquire a normal housing, buy a car, achieve success in his career.
Step 7
He wants variety
It is clear that there are monogamous men who, from a very early age, are tuned in to a serious relationship and a strong family, but, unfortunately, there are very few such guys. The bulk of men are constantly striving for new sensations. Some men are simply not in a hurry, because you can get married at forty, and at fifty. Here women need to rush things, otherwise you can remain a childless old maid, surrounded by cats and memories of bygone youth.
Step 8
He doesn't love you
Men, in spite of everything, are looking for an ideal woman worthy of love. If a guy doesn't propose to you, then maybe he just doesn't love you. Think about it, because it often happens that they meet with one girl for years, and marry another only a month after they meet. You can often hear such words from men: "I just saw her and immediately understood, this is She."
