Sometimes the usual postures and actions in bed become boring, and you want to try something new. Experimenting with sex is a great way to diversify your intimate life, but in order to make it happen, you need to get your partner's consent.
Instructions
Step 1
Challenge your partner for a frank and confidential conversation. Offer to share your sexual fantasies with each other. If your spouse is embarrassed to voice their thoughts, start by yourself. Describe a couple of techniques that you would like to try, and soon your loved one will surely join the discussion and add some points of his own. Decide which ideas inspire both of you and start implementing them.
Step 2
Invite your loved one to watch an erotic film in which the characters have a very intense sex life. If everything goes according to plan, and your partner likes the events on the screen, offer to repeat what the actors are doing. When choosing this method, take into account the nature of your soul mate: for some people, overly eccentric and explicit scenes can be disgusting. In addition, not all of the demonstrated techniques will bring you the same pleasure that is read on the faces of the actors.
Step 3
If your partner is confused by your fantasies, start small. Role-playing games with dressing up, sex in an unusual place within the apartment, new positions - many will like such harmless innovations. Show your loved one that being new only makes your intimate life better. After that, you will probably get consent for more daring experiments.
Step 4
Be considerate and empathetic to your partner. If you feel like trying something out of the ordinary, don't be guided solely by what you see in the movies. Read how to make your partner feel good, how to avoid injury during the act, what the consequences can be - some postures, sexual games or directly types of sex can be very traumatic. Demonstrate to your loved one that this is not just a momentary desire, but you really want it and know what to do.
Step 5
Give your partner time to get used to your desire. Perhaps he lived for several decades and did not know that this was possible. After the new information fits in his head and he gets used to it, there is a chance that you will get agreement.
Step 6
Don't put pressure on your soul mate if she doesn't want to participate in your experiments. Sex should be pleasant for both participants, and resentment and blackmail do not contribute to this in any way. In addition, if you neglect the opinion of a loved one and insist on your own, you risk losing his trust.
