Women are much more serious about their age than men. It is for women that it is so important to build their lives according to a plan in which important steps occur at a specific age. In the modern world, the usual time frames for marriage and pregnancy have expanded quite a lot.
In ancient times, girls were married off at almost childhood age - about thirteen or fourteen years old. The parents agreed on the marriage, the children could not change anything. Often, future husband and wife could meet for the first time at their own wedding. Children born in such a marriage were not always born healthy. And because of the low level of development of medicine, they often died. But women managed to give birth to a lot of children before the end of the childbearing period, which guaranteed the survival of at least a few of them. Girls who were about seventeen or nineteen years old were considered old maids.
What time are they getting married now
In the modern world, seventeen years is very little. A marriage made at this age is considered early. It is believed that most of these marriages do not last even for several years, after which they break up. In fact, you can successfully get married at seventeen, but you need to understand that marriage is a series of duties that must be performed by both husband and wife. Due to the lack of this understanding, many marriages break up shortly after their conclusion.
It is believed that later marriages are the most stable and strongest.
The average age of girls in Russia at the time of marriage is from twenty to twenty-four years. In Europe, girls get married much later. Marriages are gaining more and more popularity after thirty years, because at this age, fully formed individuals understand what they want from themselves, from their spouse and from marriage as a whole. In addition, there are no financial and housing problems.
Despite the fact that in many countries the term "old maid" is significantly outdated, in Russia, girls who have not married until the age of twenty-eight or thirty are looked at rather askance. It is very important not to succumb to the pressure of society, so as not to make mistakes, which can then be bitterly regretted. After all, girls who are branded as "old maid" are sometimes in such a hurry to get married that they marry the first person they meet. Although for a successful, long and happy marriage, the choice of a man is the main parameter.
Blitz dating is a dating format when only a few minutes are given to communicate with one man. If your sympathies coincide, you can continue communication after the event.
If there is no suitable man in your environment, you should wait for him to appear. Of course, water will not flow under the lying stone, so it is best to go beyond the usual life, to be like blitz dates, to various cultural places, if a man does not appear in his usual environment. At the very least, you shouldn't fuss and panic until you are at least thirty years old.
An important reason to get married before thirty
Why up to thirty? The fact is that it is believed that it is better to become pregnant and give birth before the age of thirty-five simply due to the fact that after this age the human body accumulates a critical number of diseases and problems that can affect the child. But even after a successful marriage with "the same" man, you need to live with him for some time before deciding to have a child. It is best to set aside at least a year for grinding in to each other, especially if you adhere to the concept of a planned pregnancy.
