You can never be sure what is on the mind of this or that person. People are unpredictable, sometimes even the best friends can do very terrible things. In life, situations have often happened when girls were abused by the husbands of their close friends.
How to survive a rape?
It is unlikely that anyone needs to explain what a huge shock such an incident becomes for any woman. Psychological emergency services are aware of the unfortunate fact: most often victims of rapists turn to them with thoughts of suicide. And specialists each time have to invent new ways to explain to the injured girls that even if you have been abused, this is not the end of life. And the most difficult thing is to convince those who were raped by relatives or well-known people. After all, this is not only a shock from the fact itself, but also a huge disappointment in those whom he previously trusted. For example, if the rapist is your friend's husband, most likely you will be in a panic to figure out how to punish the abuser and not destroy the relationship with your loved one. Inevitably, you have to make a difficult choice. Although, most likely, the answer here is unambiguous.
If you have been raped by the husband of your closest friend, be sure to tell her about it, because if this person is capable of this, it is not known what to expect from him in the future. Remember that by not speaking, you will endanger not only yourself, but also the unfortunate wife of the rapist. Your girlfriend, if she really is, will take your side.
No matter how hard your heart is after the rape, gather all your strength into a fist and go to the gynecologist, and then go to the nearest department of internal affairs, where write a statement.
After the rape, in no case should you immediately wash yourself and postpone the visit to the doctor and the police. The rape complaint may not be accepted within a few hours, since it will become almost impossible to prove the crime. If everything happened at night, and your clinic is closed, immediately call an ambulance and go to the nearest maternity hospital, where the doctor on duty is at any time of the day. And he, in turn, is obliged to report what happened to you to law enforcement agencies. All these actions must be performed as quickly as possible.
Friend or foe?
If we return to the purely psychological aspects of rape by a close acquaintance, it should be emphasized that no matter how warm the previous relationship, such an act crosses them out once and for all. But only with the rapist, but not with the best friend. Try to understand that she is definitely not to blame for anything, and even such an unfortunate event as rape should not darken your friendship and close relationships. If everything happens the other way around, the conclusion should be obvious to you: she is not your friend and never was.
