The relationship between husband and wife is complex and multifaceted. To happily live a long life together, a wife needs to be a spouse not only a mistress, but also a friend. Then your faithful will love and appreciate you even more.
Instructions
Step 1
Find a common hobby with your husband. Joint pleasant pastime brings the spouses very close morally. Surely you have some common ground. Have a common hobby and make time for it regularly.
Step 2
Remember that mutual respect is essential to a successful relationship for both spouses and friends. Don't limit your husband's personal freedom. Accept his right to live outside the family. Do not raise the tone of your beloved one. In no case start a scandal and do not criticize your beloved man in public.
Step 3
Be considerate of your spouse. Show interest in what happened to your husband during the day, listen carefully to his stories, and show your love.
Step 4
Talk to your husband in the same language. It will be useful for a wife who wants to be a friend to her husband to at least a little to understand his field of activity and subjects of interest. Ask your spouse about how he lives, study additional literature if necessary. Basic knowledge may be enough for you to keep up a conversation with your husband.
Step 5
Support your spouse during difficult times. You must be his inspiration. You should not scold and nag your husband if he made a mistake. If he himself repents and punishes himself, do not add fuel to the fire, console his beloved man. If the spouse sees no fault of his own, gently point out what could have been done better in a recommendatory manner.
Step 6
Spend more time together. At first glance, it may seem that you are always there - every morning, every evening, all weekend, and even on vacation. But think about whether you are really together, or if everyone spends all their free time in a separate corner with their thoughts and activities. Of course, each of you should have a private time for solitude. But sometimes you also need to cook dinner together, watch a movie or go to the store.
Step 7
Establish a relationship of trust with your husband. Tell him what thoughts are visiting you, what you want to achieve. Rip off your masks and be honest and open to each other.
Step 8
Try to understand your spouse. If his actions make you angry or confused, try to imagine yourself in his place. This is a very useful exercise. Practice it and you will become much closer to your husband.
