Friendship between a man and a woman is not such a rare occurrence as we used to think. Another thing is that these relations often hide not friendly feelings at all. If you catch yourself thinking that you are not at all averse to making a husband out of your friend, you need to take matters into your own hands.
Instructions
Step 1
To begin with, you need to realize that there is almost never a purely friendly relationship between two people of different genders. As a rule, either one or the other, or both, immediately think about how to make the relationship closer. This is understandable. Friendship is born on the basis of sympathy, and if between two same-sex people it is the end of a relationship, then between people of different genders of sympathy is very difficult not to go further. However, if a man and a woman do not go beyond friendship, then one of them does not want to go beyond this framework.
Step 2
Think about which of you is such a brake on the development of love - you or your friend. If you have long been latently feeling his sympathy, but he does not show it in any way, think about why this is so. Perhaps you are surrounded by fans all the time, and he considers you too inaccessible, or he is simply too modest, and still does not dare to hint to you about his feelings. In this case, you will have to take matters into your own hands and do everything so that he understands that you are also not indifferent to you.
Step 3
It's another matter if your friend keeps you at a distance. This means that he does not see a woman in you at close range, and you will have to fix it. It will be quite easy for you to do this, because you know him well. Think about what type of women he likes and what you can do to get closer to that ideal. In doing so, change wisely. If he likes blondes, and you are a brunette, do not rush to the hairdresser right there to lighten up. Explore the issue deeper. Find out what exactly attracts him to blondes. Perhaps in this image he sees a frivolous laugh. In the event that your demeanor is fundamentally different from this image, changing the suit will do nothing. Try to change internally, and it is very possible that soon he will begin to look at you not only as a friend.
Step 4
Sometimes it happens that men see a woman as a friend by inertia - they are used to being friends at the institute, at work, and so it continues. In this case, a woman needs to play on the herd instinct, in one way or another inherent in every man. In other words, to make a mass of fans revolve around you. Seeing such interest in his still girlfriend, a man will certainly ask himself what they see in her that he does not see. And after this question, he will definitely see you as a woman and join the ranks of your admirers.
