A relationship is established between a man and a woman, and after some time a crisis ensues. Such a turning point is identified in a year, three years and seven years. To successfully overcome the crisis of three years of living together, you need to understand yourself, your partner and understand whether it is worth continuing the relationship.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about what traits, actions do not tire you in a partner. Figure out which disadvantages you can accept and which you cannot. Talk to your loved one. Point out his mistakes. Listen to what he has to say to you in return. If your partner is not satisfied with something in you, in your actions, habits, actions, and maybe in relation to him, try to change. Only mutual understanding will help overcome the tipping point. After all, there are no identical people. You need to understand each other, learn to put up with some shortcomings, be able to overcome difficulties. It is much easier to come to the right decision together. The main thing is to understand whether it is important for both of you to maintain this relationship.
Step 2
Often times, a crisis comes at a time when something new appears. It could be the birth of a child, a new job. Such situations often provoke conflicts. Quarrels, scandals … But sometimes this is not a solution. Married couples disperse, inflict pain and suffering on each other. And if all this is in vain? A compromise can be found in any situation. It is enough to endure this crisis period. You need to be able to negotiate. After all, husband and wife are not only lovers. You should be everyone to each other - friends, partners, parents and children.
Step 3
Try to surprise your partner. Prepare a romantic dinner, wear nice lingerie. A relaxed atmosphere, twilight, calm music will dispose you to a frank conversation. Try not to swear. And as a result of the evening, arrange your loved one for sex. Close contact will help you build rapport. It is possible that the relationship will become warm again, and the problem will be solved by itself. Therefore, be attentive to your partner, learn to guess his desires.
Step 4
Some couples benefit from a temporary breakup. When partners are left alone with their thoughts, everyone can think and understand if there is a craving for a loved one, how this problem can be solved. If you love each other, respect, accept your partner as he is, and all this is mutual, then you will reunite, continue to live together. But there is a risk that you will become strangers to each other. Therefore, be sure to think about whether you are confident in your loved one enough to try to take a break from each other. But most importantly, trust your partner. True, it all depends on the specific situation, all people are individual. Sometimes the most correct thing is to consult a psychologist, which is not uncommon nowadays.
