Falling in love is probably the most pleasant and unforgettable state. At this time, you are ready to move mountains. But, it would seem, the simplest thing - to invite your beloved to become your girlfriend - seems like an impossible task.
Instructions
Step 1
Before proposing to become your girlfriend, you need to carefully prepare for such a rather serious conversation. Put all doubts and fears aside. Don't be afraid to look stupid or ridiculous. Speak up, open your heart, and you will finally understand how she treats you. After all, one way or another, she feels sympathy for you, distinguishes you from other equal competitors. Yes, it may not be burning with passion, but she likes you. Perhaps this very step will serve as a catalyst for the development of qualitatively new relations.
Step 2
Find a place to talk to. Let it take place in a pleasant environment conducive to positive emotions. The main thing is that you can tell her about your feelings slowly, effectively, with an arrangement, so it is advisable to do this not at the entrance and not at the break between couples - in the confusion and confusion it is very difficult to concentrate and gather your thoughts together. Let it be a small cozy cafe or square where you walk in the evenings. It is important that you are alone.
Step 3
Do not start the conversation with slang and jargon. Don't say anything to her like, “Hey baby, you're cool. Let's hang out together. Not only will this not give you the results you want, but it will also scare the girl away. She may think that you are a windy and narrow-minded young man. It is better to choose in advance the words with which you will start the conversation. You can practice in front of a mirror at home. Don't give cheap, trivial compliments. Words should come from the heart, be sincere and simple. Try to tell her what attracts and attracts you so much about her, how wonderful and unusual she is. You would like to see her as often as possible. It makes your life brighter and more interesting.
Step 4
If the girl agrees to date - great, the goal is achieved, you are happy. If she is not ready for a serious relationship for some reason, do not despair, invite her to remain friends. Perhaps, over time, she will understand how honest, kind, sincere and open person you are, and will look at you differently.
