The relationship has reached a stage of further development, and it's time to propose to your girlfriend. And this should be done as beautifully and effectively as possible - after all, it is this moment that will become decisive in your life, and the memories of it will remain for a lifetime.
Instructions
Step 1
An indispensable attribute of a beautiful marriage proposal is an engagement ring that a man presents to his beloved. You should take care of its purchase in advance. The ring should not be too massive and pretentious (after the wedding, engagement rings are usually worn on one finger with the wedding rings), the classic of the genre is gold with one rather large diamond or several smaller stones. But options are also possible - depending on the tastes of the girl and the material wealth of the groom. Before buying, it is imperative to find out exactly the size of the rings that the girl wears on her ring finger: an unsuitable piece of jewelry can turn an engagement into a farce.
Step 2
Decide on a date. The day of the proposal should be memorable and you should have the opportunity to properly celebrate the occasion. Traditional romantic holidays are well suited for this - for example, Valentine's Day, anniversaries of events significant for your love story, you can make a proposal on a fabulous New Year's Eve. If in the near future you are invited to a wedding to your friends, this holiday of triumphant love can also be a good reason for a marriage proposal. An excellent option is a planned joint vacation, because trips saturated with impressions and emotions will become a favorable background for your holiday. But, if there is no suitable reason, you should not postpone the date of the proposal for a long time, especially if the girl is already clearly expecting it from you. After all, a romantic entourage can be created on your own, and months of vain waiting can lead to the fact that your beloved will be disappointed in the relationship.
Step 3
Think about the environment in which you would like to propose to the girl. First of all, you should be guided by the character of your chosen one - if she is a secretive and withdrawn girl, it is better to do it alone, in an intimate setting. If she likes to always be in the spotlight, public confessions and options will be appropriate when a girl can immediately share her joy with her friends. A sentimental person will be delighted with an offer in a classic romantic setting, an extravagant one - with any non-standard moves.
Step 4
If you want to propose in an intimate setting, a romantic dinner at your home is perfect. Candles, champagne, flowers … Or a light breakfast, beautifully served and served to your beloved right in bed. What is good about the "home" option - if the girl answers "yes", you can continue your holiday in a logical and natural way with love games. This option, for all its simplicity, requires careful preparation - everywhere there should be cleanliness, beauty, and, of course, the groom's appearance should be "on a level", no stretched T-shirts or unshaven cheeks are allowed here. When pronouncing the cherished words, it is better to kneel on one knee - this always makes a good impression.
Step 5
It is no less beautiful to make an offer "tete-a-tete" during a joint walk around the city or on vacation. The main thing is to choose a place with the right mood. An observation deck overlooking the evening city, the seashore at sunrise or sunset, the place of your first date, a shady park, a cable car or a Ferris wheel … The place should be not crowded and impressive enough, then it will become a worthy decoration for your proposal. Think about the words you will say in advance. However, if you are not good at writing speeches, or at the right time the prepared phrases "flew out of my head" - it is better to limit yourself to a simple, but so desirable "Marry me!" or "Do you agree to become my wife?"
Step 6
Almost universal is the "Hollywood" version of the proposal - during dinner in a restaurant. This requires almost no preparation effort, the main thing is to choose an institution with an appropriate stop, solemn and romantic. The staff will take care of the rest. If you are in touch, and the restaurant's administration is accommodating, you can negotiate additional "chips". Your girlfriend's favorite melody, which the orchestra will play at a given moment, a "special" cake with the inscription "I love you", a box with a ring served on a plate by the waiter - all this can become a "highlight" of your proposal. If a girl loves publicity, and the restaurant has a stage with a microphone, you can declare your love to her from the stage, in front of everyone present.
Step 7
You can publicly confess your love to a girl not only in a restaurant, but also in any institution where there is a stage and a microphone, in a club or at a noisy friendly party. After asking the audience for a minute of attention, first make a speech that lists the girl's merits, briefly tells the story your relationship and finally an offer follows. However, you can only do this if you are, first of all, firmly convinced of her readiness to immediately say “yes”, otherwise you will put the girl in an awkward position. The second prerequisite is your ability to easily and naturally stand on the stage and make "incendiary" speeches. Otherwise, instead of a spectacular offer of a hand and heart, you will end up with a crumpled and uncertain performance, and instead of admiration for you, the girl will only feel awkward.
Step 8
Another version of the marriage proposal in front of the amazed audience is the classic scene "under the balcony of the beloved." Call the girl and ask her to look out the window or go to the balcony. Then there can be many options: a serenade (both in your performance and by the forces of invited musicians), visual effects (for example, a heart laid out of burning candles, in the center of which you stand with a ring in your hand), an inscription on the asphalt “Be my wife”, a large group of your mutual friends with balloons in their hands (they will fly up to the sky when she says "yes") and the like. Such a proposal can be very effective, but it is necessary to foresee what will happen after the girl says "yes". If at the moment she, for example, is doing general cleaning in the apartment, dressed in an old tracksuit, and after the proposal she will either have to invite you to her place, or go down and throw herself into the arms of the groom - and neither one nor the other version of her, most likely, will not please. Therefore, such a development of events must be excluded. It is best to arrange a "scene under the balcony" either when a girl is waiting for you to visit, or when you are going somewhere to go together - and you promised to pick up your beloved from home.
