Often, lovers are shy in front of the object of their passion and cannot muster the courage to propose a serious relationship. If you are one of such anxious young men, but want to achieve happiness, you will have to gather all your will into a fist and act.
Instructions
Step 1
Most young people, embarrassed to offer a relationship to a girl, are primarily afraid of rejection. Guys are also scared of humiliation if their manhood is denied, and the fear that the girl will no longer want to communicate with them, and that she can make fun of the unfortunate lover. If this fear prevents you from taking the first step, do not rush off the bat. To get started, invite your lady to a date - to a cafe, a movie, or just take a walk around the city. Your meeting can be friendly with a touch of flirting. Gradually get closer to the girl and do not forget to please her with pleasant little things - give her a bouquet of flowers, a box of chocolates, warm mittens if it happens in winter. Seeing that the girl enjoys the time spent together, gladly accepts gifts and responds to courtship, you can finally kiss your beloved and invite her to your home for a cup of tea.
Step 2
If you are mentally ready to offer a relationship to a girl you like, but would like to do it in an unusual way, so that she definitely cannot refuse you, try something extreme. Jump with a parachute and shout at a height: "I want you to be my girlfriend!", Or do it while kayaking, shouting over the noise of a mountain river. If you and your half are not so extreme, you can say it at the rink, landing beautifully at the girl's feet.
Step 3
An offer to date can be romanticized. Invite the girl for a horse ride, or for a boat trip. Perhaps you know a beautiful place in the city where couples in love love to stroll. A romantic setting will encourage your sweetheart to agree.
Step 4
If you are under eighteen years old, you can ask your friend directly if she is willing to become your girlfriend.