It often happens that your relationship with a man ceased to suit you, outlived its usefulness or reached a dead end. If you understand that you will not have a joint future, then you do not need to waste time and tell him that you are breaking up. To avoid awkwardness and a long conversation, as well as to save your time and nerves, we advise you to write him about it by e-mail.
Instructions
Step 1
Tell us about your decision right away, in the very first lines of your letter. If he wants to find out the reasons and motives that made you take this decision, he will read it further. In the event that it will be enough for him only information that you need to leave, he will no longer waste his time on finding out the reasons.
Step 2
If you think that your motives are still important to him, then state them. Do not describe special cases, try to generalize those traits in his character or behavior that make your coexistence impossible. You must explain very clearly that your love has passed, and there is no chance of its return, even if some of the shortcomings are corrected.
Step 3
Even if you already know who to replace him, you should not explain your breakup with the appearance of a new man, you should not inflict additional blows on his pride. In addition, such an argument does not at all put an end to the relationship, but allows us to hope that if the rival is eliminated, then you can be together again. You will simply provoke a showdown between your men and not the fact that the new lover will want to fight for you in the presence of such an active fan.
Step 4
Do not refer to the opinion of friends or parents in your letter - this will also only embitter him against innocent people who wish you happiness. And do not write the silly phrase "Let's stay friends", because in such a situation it will sound humiliating for the person who was rejected. Take responsibility for your decision solely and put a firm point against hope that you might change your mind.
