There are relationships that are difficult to end without an abrupt break. Because any delay leads to the fact that a person is no longer able to withstand the burden of these problems. As a result, he himself plunges into the abyss of his partner's problems, and sometimes these problems lie in alcoholism.
Instructions
Step 1
Alcoholics are skilled manipulators. They put pressure on your pity, conscience and responsibility. They know how to swear that tomorrow they will start a new life, so today we need to arrange a commemoration for themselves of the past. Tomorrow will come, and they will begin to claim that by the evening they will be in decent shape to meet the new day, and for this they need a little. Have a little drink. But tomorrow, for sure, everyone will tie it up. Sound familiar? How many times have you witnessed this skillful production. And they even took part in this farce, setting the table for the "commemoration". It seemed to you that this is a helpless person who will disappear without you. In general, he is good, well, who is not without sin. Why is this position convenient? You seem to be in the public eye not a bitch who left a sick person in a difficult situation. Yes, exactly the patient. After all, doctors have long argued that alcoholism is a disease. But it is the man himself who gives the course to this latent disease. Alcoholism is poorly treated. Because the depths of this disease lie in the psychological plane. There will be no result without the patient's desire. And the patient's desire must be based on some serious reason. As long as the alcoholic knows that he will be accepted and so, he has no desire to change anything in his life.
Step 2
Alcoholics know how to evoke pity and sympathy. And it is in Russia that they know how to achieve this from others. Our mentality has a paradoxical interpretation of compassion. We feel sorry for the neighbor's drunk and do not care at all about the suffering of children in cancer centers. And when you ask yourself the question whether this healthy adult man is worthy of your pity, the answer will be unequivocal. Are you ready to endure binges, beatings, his constant unemployment and your savings on everything. And if you have children, are they worthy to see such an unpleasant picture every day as a drunken father? For what, you are wasting years of your only life. No one has the right to steal these precious days of drinking.
Step 3
The first step is always difficult. But in the situation of life with an alcoholic, any changes will be for the better. Moreover, as practice shows, when such people remain completely alone, without the support of relatives and friends, they change. After all, there is no longer anyone to pour out their far-fetched problems to (the reason they supposedly drink). There are no viewers who will regret and throw money. Only reaching the very bottom, you can push off to start a new life.
