It is hard to live with a husband who is constantly drunk, or rather, simply unbearable. He often brawls, tyrannizes not only his wife, but also children, so there is a sincere desire not to live with him on the same living space.
The solution to this issue depends, as a rule, on one thing: who owns the living space, where the dysfunctional family lives. Depending on this, the actions aimed at getting rid of the drunkard and erasing him from their lives are also different. And in all cases, you need to act clearly, competently, step by step. Do not back down, since it is very convenient for a man to live together, there is no need to solve any problems, a woman will do everything without him. And his promises to improve will remain promises, because nothing prevented him from doing this before his wife began to take action. And advice to the ladies: you decided to leave, you need to leave, and not frighten with empty words. They can only work once.
The apartment belongs to the husband
First of all, you need to pack your things and move out. If an alcoholic is also a tyrant, this should be done when he is at work or at the next party with friends. In order for him to eventually leave alone not only his wife, but also his children, the children will have to change schools. It is better for such a person not to know the address where the family will move out, so as not to have problems afterwards. If on his part there will be harassment, the crisis center for assistance to women will help protect against them.
The home is the property of the wife
In this case, the easiest way is to collect all the belongings of the would-be husband, call a locksmith and change the locks. When the husband returns from the next party, put his things out and no longer let him into the house. One thing remains - how, after that, not to succumb to persuasion and not start the relationship anew. Here you need to know that this option is very convenient for a man, since there is always food, clothes are also washed and ironed. And the woman is nearby, who, oddly enough, loves.
The option, when a man, like an unnecessary cat, is put out the door, usually ends with his too obsessive attempt at reconciliation. In this situation, he can promise anything, but for a short time it will be enough. Soon the situation will repeat itself, but more acutely, since he will know that as soon as he promises his wife mountains of gold, he will be forgiven and accepted back.
Shared apartment
In this situation, it is not uncommon for a woman to leave with children in order to start the divorce proceedings and the sale of common living space after that. By selling an apartment, you can buy housing for both husband and wife. The main thing is to agree on the sale, since the court cannot force the common property to sell, it can only divide it, allocating each of them his share.
Municipal apartment
In this case, you can try to evict the spouse from the occupied area altogether, there is an article on this in the RF LCD. It is important that there are witnesses to the illegal behavior of a man who could appear in court. Another option is a forced exchange. The woman finds housing options for herself and her husband, also municipal ones, and sues. If the court finds that no one's rights have been infringed, it will make a forced exchange.
