Virtual dating is a bunch of advantages: time savings, the ability to search by parameters and the chance to get to know a person before a real meeting. A successful profile will help you to take a worthy position in the ranking of Internet cavaliers. There are 7 things men shouldn't write about themselves on dating sites.
I'm a man in my prime
If the most you can do is phrases like “I love sports,” “I read books, I watch films,” “a man in his prime,” then what will you talk about in correspondence and on a date? Although it probably won't come to this, because your page will get lost in the gray swamp of the same faceless profiles. Even the most boring facts can be presented with a sauce of originality and humor. Experiment and stand out.
I will answer your questions
It is not clear what men hope for, who save printed signs and at the same time write: “ask what is interesting”, “surprise me”, “interest me”. This is not an interview, do not be greedy, share information about yourself. Show that you have an interest, a brain and a desire to get to know each other. Why should the girls take the initiative from the very beginning and drag you in tow?
Tired of being alone, looking for a kindred spirit
The image of a sad man beaten by life is immediately created. And he no longer cares who will be there, he is just tired of being alone. Frequent guests on the profile of such a sad gentleman are long poems and whiny statuses. If you do not want to attract equally desperate young ladies, be worthy, not miserable. Keep silent about your failures in your personal life. If you are looking for a healthy and equal relationship, add something positive to your page.
Inadequate, please do not write
Aggression and dissatisfaction with women is not the best and not the most logical beginning of getting to know them. There is no need to speak unflatteringly about the ex in the questionnaire. If you can no longer keep all this negative in yourself, find out the relationship with the culprit or go to a psychologist. You should also not indicate which women do not need to write to you, for example: "to divorces, fat and mercantile personalities - walk by." A smart girl will pass by your page, even if she does not fit these definitions. Because by such "cries of the soul" you can immediately see a limited, boorish man.
I am looking for a young, beautiful, smart and rich
See if you have overdone the list of requirements for your betrothed. If your profile contains a long list of feminine virtues, the girls will close it very quickly, without even reading it. 5 qualities that you want to see in a woman - this is the golden mean. By the way, check if you yourself meet your needs. An unemployed, uneducated, unsportsmanlike man with an average appearance is not well suited to a Miss World with a graduate degree and a high income.
Fully completed section on sex
There is no need to demonstrate your preoccupation with the topic of sex. Believe me, everyone understands that without him there is no harmonious relationship. It is not necessary to inform all Internet users about your sex habits, sizes, exploits in bed and preferences. In addition, not every woman dares to answer such a man.
I'm not going to adapt to anyone
Above was advice not to go into lyrics and be a man. Excessive independence is the other extreme. A lonely cowboy who doesn't need anyone will remain lonely. How will you have a girlfriend if you are not going to fit her into your life? Since you, even such a self-sufficient and determined in life, came to a dating site, you do not have enough relationships, be honest.
Summarizing
The right profile on a dating site is a magnet for your target audience. Try to arouse interest, dispensing with hackneyed phrases, outright rudeness and excessive romanticism for a man. Be the boss of the initiative and don't expect the perfect girlfriend. Politeness and benevolence are your helpers. Together with catchy photos, such a profile will not be left without female attention.
