You have a happy family, harmonious relationship with your spouse, an organized life, but you have no children yet. Of course, having a baby is a big responsibility. But you want to have a baby, and your husband thinks that now is not the time for this and finds good reasons that prevent you from doing it.
In life, there are often situations for which people are not ready. But this does not mean at all that they will not be able to cope with them. As a rule, men are afraid of becoming fathers for several reasons, including the usual fear of the appearance of a new creature in their lives. After all, this circumstance radically changes the entire existing situation, moreover, it can quite strongly affect the future. The kid becomes the central figure in the family, and the newly-made dad loses most of his wife's attention. The baby, in his view, is associated with dirty diapers, sleepless nights, household chores, a tired wife and a rejection of pleasures and familiar life. The task of a woman is to convey to her husband such an important aspect of the birth of a child as the happiness and joy that the little man brings to his parents.
Some men are prevented from having children by financial insecurity. At the same time, the family often does not have financial and housing problems. Perhaps the spouse wants you to have a separate home before the birth of the child, solid guarantees to fully ensure the future of your son or daughter, for example, studying abroad, etc. The fear of leaving the family without material wealth does not allow a man to fully enjoy his role as a father. And if his words about material disorder are not just an excuse, if for the sake of the family he is ready to sacrifice his interests, the wife will be able to explain to her husband that his requirements for himself are unrealistic. It is important to convince a man that she is ready to overcome all the difficulties associated with the birth and upbringing of a child with him, avoiding reproaches and exaggerated claims.
There are situations when the wife behaves like a little one, is capricious, showing an eccentric character. In such a family, a man feels that he is not ready to raise another child. A woman will have to prove to her husband that she has grown up a long time ago, to become more serious, so that he sees that his wife is also ready to take responsibility for their baby.
