Almost all marriages are created for love. But it also happens that people are often not similar in character. Sometimes such unions break up almost immediately, sometimes they last for several decades, bringing discomfort to the life and relationships of the couple.
Having registered their marriage or living in a civil marriage, spouses, after the bouquet-candy period, often see their future family life in bright colors. Sometimes a couple suits each other in all spheres of life (relationships, mutual understanding, everyday life, sex, joint recreation). But it happens that in the presence of love, people cannot get along in any way. Constant scandals, quarrels, swearing, omissions, resentments. And all this for some little things. Little things can be everyday (the wife put the mop in the wrong place or the husband threw socks), little things can also be psycho-emotional (smiled wrong, did not focus on the conversation). Unfortunately, all these little things are very tense at home and can even lead to divorce.
All these troubles can be attributed to energy vampirism, when people "feed" from each other through swearing. But often it's just an incompatibility of characters.
The husband is the head of the family. And, naturally, he makes money, tries to lead the household. But sometimes he is very addicted to this leadership, which causes family members to suffer. And this applies to many areas of family life.
If the wife is a housewife, then it becomes more difficult to solve some family problems. The spouse limits herself in freedom, not only sitting at home (for example, taking care of children), but also financially. She has to "look into her husband's mouth", asking for money for any little thing for herself or her children.
Naturally, some men feel even more significant in this regard and take advantage of it. Not the most pleasant moment. But in this case, one should not raise a scandal because of an unbought thing or product. You need to calmly sit down and explain to your husband that this thing is very necessary and you need to get it as soon as possible. We must show calmness and patience, understanding how hard it is for him to get money, and what hard work he has to do for this.
We must try to bring to our man that it is emotionally very difficult to stay at home, and caring for and raising a child is also work that takes away both physical and emotional strength.
Calmly discuss each problem that arises. A strong, domineering, characteristic man can react very violently to some situations. In this case, you need to pull yourself together and try to calm him down in a calm (but not instructive tone). What good would it be if both spouses were screaming to prove their case? It is unlikely that it will be possible to come to a consensus, but the nerves will be frayed in both.
Be calm, react adequately to your spouse's attacks, both justified and simply explosive. One of the two needs to give in a little and be more loyal. Somewhere you need to keep silent, somewhere - not to reproach something. A man is by nature a breadwinner and dominant. Play this game with him. Let him feel even more important to you, more needed and loved. Be wiser and take your ambition away. Talk more often, discuss problems calmly. Try to understand each other. And endure explosive emotional moments, applying warmth and affection to them, all for a happy family life.
