A woman's infidelity poses a much greater threat to the family than her husband's infidelity. After all, a minority of men can refuse intimacy with the fairer sex without love. Most often it happens that intimate relationships begin to awaken in a man an interest in his partner. In turn, a woman first of all feels the need for love, and sex only complements her feelings.
Instructions
Step 1
Calm down, stop all manifestations of anger. Get busy with work, children, or something else. In this case, you don't need to do stupid things to keep your family together. It is clear that you have thoughts of revenge on your cheating wife, as well as her lover, but think about what you really want. After all, by your actions, you can finally destroy the family. It is also not worth getting drunk - this is not an option at all. Think about cheating only in the presence of a sober and close friend who will understand and support you.
Step 2
Listen to your wife calmly. Ask her what she wants. Surely at this moment the traitor will try to ask you for forgiveness. If this does not happen, then give your wife time. Let her think and make a decision for herself. In this case, you should not blame her, do not remember about what happened.
Step 3
Forgive the betrayal and do not say: "Forgive, but never do this again." This will of course be the simplest solution. However, by doing so, you give her the green light for subsequent departures to the left.
Step 4
Be unavailable for a while. Just do not overdo it, otherwise they may think that, God forbid, something happened to you. Show your indifference to the fact of cheating. In doing so, show interest in your wife. Thus, you can completely break all her expectations.
Step 5
Don't show your wife a high value to you. Don't make any admissions that you love her, no compliments. In this case, you need a skillful combination of hot sex and cold attitude.
Step 6
Give cause for jealousy. She will expect treason from you in order to become quit. Don't give her the opportunity to do this. However, it is very necessary to make you a little jealous. This will stir up her feelings, she will understand that she can lose you.
Step 7
Learn to get up and go without hesitation. At the same time, you can say a few words about the unacceptable attitude towards you.
Step 8
Make it clear to your wife that it is she who is to blame for the betrayal, therefore, she should be corrected. Do not be distracted by any of her attempts to normalize everything ahead of time, and even more so to correct the situation only in your favor.
