Unbiased statistics show that more than half of marriages break up today. Why is it that people who yesterday sincerely loved each other and swore eternal fidelity today file an application for divorce and also sincerely hate? If we analyze the experience of those married couples who managed to save their family, then we can draw conclusions and give recommendations to those who also want this.
Instructions
Step 1
Never deny each other attention and affection. You should not have taboo topics and topics that are not interesting to another. Make it a rule to discuss your affairs and consult with each other, take an interest in how the day went, get through trouble together, and support your partner with your love and faith in his strength.
Step 2
Transform your home into a place where you feel cozy and comfortable, where your friends are happy to come. Adapt your family nest to live together, but leave a place in it where everyone, if necessary, can be alone. With all your love for each other, everyone can have moments when loneliness is simply physically necessary.
Step 3
Respect each other's right to privacy and trust your partner. He also needs to sometimes visit friends or girlfriends, take this as another reason to miss each other. Love lives where there is freedom and trust.
Step 4
Have your own interests and hobbies, do not live in the shadow of your spouse. Do not create situations where your presence becomes burdensome and your attention is too intrusive. Try to keep your distance and only give advice and guidance when asked to do so.
Step 5
Don't stay at home on weekends - find something to do with yourself, which can be going to the movies, walking in the park, or driving out of town. Communicate more often and generously share your favorite places, books, dreams with each other.
Step 6
And do not allow strangers, be they friends, relatives or parents, to interfere in your family affairs. Knowing that the responsibility for your marriage rests only with you two helps to take it more seriously and take care of it in every way.
