When a relationship with a guy is just beginning, they are full of poignancy, brightness, understatement, intrigue. But gradually, not only your advantages, but also disadvantages are revealed to your partner. A shadow of disappointment looms on the horizon. What can you do to keep the relationship, not get bored with your loved one?
Instructions
Step 1
It is important to surprise a man. Therefore, do not forget about unpredictability, surprise, mystery. Let your image be completely unsolved for your beloved. Since all women are by nature artistic, it will not be difficult for you to transform from a homely, cozy hostess into a femme fatale vamp or a seductive frivolous coquette, depending on the circumstances. Of course, it is important to observe a sense of proportion, otherwise not only your partner, but you yourself will cease to understand who you really are.
Step 2
Keep and respect your individuality, originality, uniqueness. And make it clear to your beloved that in your face he has acquired a priceless treasure, a gem with the brightest facets, which must be treasured, blown away dust particles, groom and cherish.
Step 3
But you yourself treat your heartfelt friend with respect, sincerely appreciate his good qualities, do not skimp on praise and affection. Sometimes you can add zest and pepper in the form of whims, pouting lips and an offended look. But then again - do not overplay, have time to stop in time.
Step 4
Don't be clingy and annoying like a fly. If a man is thoughtful, anxious, sad, but in no hurry to explain to you why he is in such a state, do not rush to question. Offer a delicious dinner, sit by your side, hug gently. The main thing is that he feels your genuine sympathy, indifference.
Step 5
No matter how much you would like to constantly be with your beloved, delve into all his affairs, share everything, everything that is in your soul - do not do this. You must have your own activities, your own personal territory, your secrets. You don't need to turn a guy into a bosom friend.
Step 6
By the way, about girlfriends. Be discreet enough with them, do not wash dirty linen in public, do not talk about your intimate affairs - this is both ugly and fraught with side effects. It is only with your man that you need to talk about the innermost - important and relevant. Then a special, spiritual closeness will appear between you. And it will be very difficult for a loved one to get bored.
